"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chick feels "awkward"

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so i hooked up with a girl in one of my social circles last weekend we where good friends before hand and yea i guess it was a little weird but whatever. it felt right..... blah blah blah

anyway great

so a week goes by and the circle arranges to meet up again last night for someones birthday

i can't be fvcked to drink this weekend i need a detox so i decide to just come along for the social and drive

i arrive a little later than anyone else and a few of my male friends are already there chatting with this chick and her friends so i head over to say hi to everyone

the guys are excited to see me and we start getting some banter going

the girl has her back to me whilst all this is going on but she knows full well I'm there

so i tap her on the shoulder and say hi ***** hows things ?

well fvck me she looked at me as if id killed her first born child

i could see it was physically hurting her to talk to me

(considering i literally hadn't spoken to her all week I'm wondering wtf it is I've done wrong :confused:)

im not one to hang around where I'm not wanted so i had one quick drink with the lads and left the bar without so much as looking at her

today one of my mates tells me that this chick told him she felt awkward when i arrived and thats why she was so cold :confused:

i don't particularly care what this chick thinks of me but i can't have this ruin the circle as its one of my favourite groups to hang out in

so what do i do brothers ?

call her out on it ?

or just leave her get over it herself and i just carry on being my ****y self ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm glad you said that espi because to be honest i really didn't want to speak to her

infact i was piss*d off that she was acting like that when the week before she was sucking my c0ck

she can suck on eggs now I'm gonna make a point of banging all her friends and then we'll see how clever she thinks she is
 
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