so this girl ive been talking to calls me at night and starts talking to me and she ends up falling asleep on the phone, i was like 'hello?' hello? then i hear her snoring...so i just hung up. i never heard from her today but i was just wondering next time i talk to her do i just forget this ever happened or can i use this to kinda help me get with her and have her look at me as more higher value?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
chick calls me but falls asleep on phone
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ROFL!
How long did you talk to her? I don't think I've ever had a phone conversation that goes longer than 2-3 minutes, unless it's from overseas.
Just stop talking to chicks at night. You're already a big chump talking to a chick at night when you could be doing something else more productive, like banging another chick, or enjoying a good sleep (just like this one is, while talking on the phone to you).
How long did you talk to her? I don't think I've ever had a phone conversation that goes longer than 2-3 minutes, unless it's from overseas.
Just stop talking to chicks at night. You're already a big chump talking to a chick at night when you could be doing something else more productive, like banging another chick, or enjoying a good sleep (just like this one is, while talking on the phone to you).
MacAvoy
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I bet they talk endlessly with long periods of silence.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MotownMack
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dude, I have done this 1000 times to chicks. Whether I was drunk or tired, it happens. And I am pretty sure it's happened to me once or twice too.
Don't read anything into it, she probably just tired.
Don't read anything into it, she probably just tired.
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Well she did call you which indicated she has a high interest in you.
Unfortunately for her it was simply too late at night for her to do this lmao.
So you might as well forget it this time bro.
Its when a chick falls asleep regularly when you call her that you start to know where your value is at in her eyes.
Unfortunately for her it was simply too late at night for her to do this lmao.
So you might as well forget it this time bro.
Its when a chick falls asleep regularly when you call her that you start to know where your value is at in her eyes.
Id give her a ring and make fun (in a nice way) about how awful her snorring is when she's asleep. I wouldnt worry about how long you are on the phone either... theres no rules, Im often on the phone to a girl for half hour or so at a time if im wanting to meet her frequently.
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This thread is funny. Call her out on it and laugh your ass off.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rebound Material
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Yea I woundnt take this personally man. Im pretty sure she didnt call you so that you can listen to her snore. In fact you could use this as a neg against her. Next time you should call her during the day and when she picks up and says "hello?" just snore as loud and sarcastically as you can on the other line!
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Dont do that ... that is AFC... just ignore it ..Rebound Material said:Yea I woundnt take this personally man. Im pretty sure she didnt call you so that you can listen to her snore. In fact you could use this as a neg against her. Next time you should call her during the day and when she picks up and says "hello?" just snore as loud and sarcastically as you can on the other line!