"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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chick calls me but falls asleep on phone

baurman

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so this girl ive been talking to calls me at night and starts talking to me and she ends up falling asleep on the phone, i was like 'hello?' hello? then i hear her snoring...so i just hung up. i never heard from her today but i was just wondering next time i talk to her do i just forget this ever happened or can i use this to kinda help me get with her and have her look at me as more higher value?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jitterbug

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ROFL!

How long did you talk to her? I don't think I've ever had a phone conversation that goes longer than 2-3 minutes, unless it's from overseas.

Just stop talking to chicks at night. You're already a big chump talking to a chick at night when you could be doing something else more productive, like banging another chick, or enjoying a good sleep (just like this one is, while talking on the phone to you).
 

baurman

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no actually she called me and she was saying shes getting tired but then she just fell asleep. we were on the phone for like 5 min.
 

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so she was tired, or she was makign fun of you lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MotownMack

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dude, I have done this 1000 times to chicks. Whether I was drunk or tired, it happens. And I am pretty sure it's happened to me once or twice too.

Don't read anything into it, she probably just tired.
 

Effington

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I'd definitely bash her for that. She have narcolepsy or something?
 

KontrollerX

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Well she did call you which indicated she has a high interest in you.

Unfortunately for her it was simply too late at night for her to do this lmao.

So you might as well forget it this time bro.

Its when a chick falls asleep regularly when you call her that you start to know where your value is at in her eyes.
 

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Id give her a ring and make fun (in a nice way) about how awful her snorring is when she's asleep. I wouldnt worry about how long you are on the phone either... theres no rules, Im often on the phone to a girl for half hour or so at a time if im wanting to meet her frequently.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rebound Material

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Yea I woundnt take this personally man. Im pretty sure she didnt call you so that you can listen to her snore. In fact you could use this as a neg against her. Next time you should call her during the day and when she picks up and says "hello?" just snore as loud and sarcastically as you can on the other line!
 

DonGorgon

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Rebound Material said:
Yea I woundnt take this personally man. Im pretty sure she didnt call you so that you can listen to her snore. In fact you could use this as a neg against her. Next time you should call her during the day and when she picks up and says "hello?" just snore as loud and sarcastically as you can on the other line!
Dont do that ... that is AFC... just ignore it ..
 
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