so this girl ive been talking to calls me at night and starts talking to me and she ends up falling asleep on the phone, i was like 'hello?' hello? then i hear her snoring...so i just hung up. i never heard from her today but i was just wondering next time i talk to her do i just forget this ever happened or can i use this to kinda help me get with her and have her look at me as more higher value?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
chick calls me but falls asleep on phone
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ROFL!
How long did you talk to her? I don't think I've ever had a phone conversation that goes longer than 2-3 minutes, unless it's from overseas.
Just stop talking to chicks at night. You're already a big chump talking to a chick at night when you could be doing something else more productive, like banging another chick, or enjoying a good sleep (just like this one is, while talking on the phone to you).
How long did you talk to her? I don't think I've ever had a phone conversation that goes longer than 2-3 minutes, unless it's from overseas.
Just stop talking to chicks at night. You're already a big chump talking to a chick at night when you could be doing something else more productive, like banging another chick, or enjoying a good sleep (just like this one is, while talking on the phone to you).
MacAvoy
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I bet they talk endlessly with long periods of silence.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
MotownMack
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dude, I have done this 1000 times to chicks. Whether I was drunk or tired, it happens. And I am pretty sure it's happened to me once or twice too.
Don't read anything into it, she probably just tired.
Don't read anything into it, she probably just tired.
KontrollerX
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Well she did call you which indicated she has a high interest in you.
Unfortunately for her it was simply too late at night for her to do this lmao.
So you might as well forget it this time bro.
Its when a chick falls asleep regularly when you call her that you start to know where your value is at in her eyes.
Unfortunately for her it was simply too late at night for her to do this lmao.
So you might as well forget it this time bro.
Its when a chick falls asleep regularly when you call her that you start to know where your value is at in her eyes.
Id give her a ring and make fun (in a nice way) about how awful her snorring is when she's asleep. I wouldnt worry about how long you are on the phone either... theres no rules, Im often on the phone to a girl for half hour or so at a time if im wanting to meet her frequently.
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This thread is funny. Call her out on it and laugh your ass off.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Rebound Material
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Yea I woundnt take this personally man. Im pretty sure she didnt call you so that you can listen to her snore. In fact you could use this as a neg against her. Next time you should call her during the day and when she picks up and says "hello?" just snore as loud and sarcastically as you can on the other line!
DonGorgon
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Dont do that ... that is AFC... just ignore it ..Rebound Material said:Yea I woundnt take this personally man. Im pretty sure she didnt call you so that you can listen to her snore. In fact you could use this as a neg against her. Next time you should call her during the day and when she picks up and says "hello?" just snore as loud and sarcastically as you can on the other line!