"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chick at work

Thatfeel21

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Ok..ive been working with this chick for the past 4 months..shes had a boyfriend the whole time but every single day, and i mean every day she flirts with me non-stop and grabs/touches my ass as if its hers...i took that as a huge IOI but then i asked her to chill and she said she cant cuz she has a man...so i backed off for a while and laid back but shes always kept up the 'groping and flirting' haha..the thing is, ive always been a ****y bastard (jerk) at work but she seems to like it...is she just a ****tease looking for attention or is she expecting me jump thru hoops to fuk her like a true jerk and move on? i really can't call it..:confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I had a similar situation a couple of years back. Didn't end very well, but luckily for me I ended up quitting and getting a new job, where I learned my lesson with workplace flirting.
"Flirt, but don't date"

Let her do it, if that kind of thing is tolerated at your place of employment, and you really don't care. Her personality really just may be like that (touchy, flirty etc.) But once again, I must strongly advise you AGAINST reciprocating at work, getting involved too much in her b/f life (emotional tampon), or anything that could get you fired.
 

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i hear ya Lord..shes not much (HB 4.5), ive been at my job for a WHILE i cant be fired...my gut feeling has always said blow her off but its tough when its every single day and i want pu$$y..she lets me touch her all over too but i rather fukk her than just grope her all day.
 

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If she lets you touch her, you want it, and she has a b/f?
WTF? Dude, she's toying with you to see what you'll do.

I would handle it by distancing yourself (dont touch her as much) and make her hang out with you (obviously not physically make her, but by freezing her out she might wanna hang). Outside of work, you'll have more wiggle room and better gauge if you can AMOG the b/f, if thats really what you're gunning for with a WARPIG.

Once again though, I will advise you to NOT date this girl or string her along for the pvssy. You have been at your job for what seems to be a pretty decent time, and women have the potential to get very scornful.
 

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Ugh... shes hideous you can do better.

Reminds me of military chicks.. ****in swamp donkeys but they flirt and tease and get turned into pin cushions like you wouldnt believe. Dude concentrate your efforts elsewhere. Ugly chicks shouldn't require any hoop jumping.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lord Shinra said:
If she lets you touch her, you want it, and she has a b/f?
WTF? Dude, she's toying with you to see what you'll do.

I would handle it by distancing yourself (dont touch her as much) and make her hang out with you (obviously not physically make her, but by freezing her out she might wanna hang). Outside of work, you'll have more wiggle room and better gauge if you can AMOG the b/f, if thats really what you're gunning for with a WARPIG.

Once again though, I will advise you to NOT date this girl or string her along for the pvssy. You have been at your job for what seems to be a pretty decent time, and women have the potential to get very scornful.
ehh..ive ran into her outside of work she could pass as a HB 6..but yeah, sometimes its hard to distance/ignore her when whenever im around her i know im gonna get touched...im strongly thinking about doing the No- contact rule to see if she starts to gravitates toward me..by the way i have NO plates spinning rite because im on winter break which is why its even shes even on my mind
 
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