chick at work

[Sexorcist]

whats up dudes... I need some advice from you experts and expert to be's. I found out that this girl at work really digs me, like has been talking to all my coworkers about me non-stop and to the point of almost obsessing over me... now I know how to handle it when a girl likes me, but not to this god damn degree.... she's on my nuts big time, and I'm hoping thats where she stays, if you know what i'm saying... because I don't wan tto get into a relationship, just want some cooch.

Well heres the problem... since she's so damn into me it kind of freaks me out and makes me nervous... like the opportunity is so easy but I'm afraid i'll **** it up... as weird as it sounds I'm usually better at talking to girls when they dont like me or slightly do. I tend to get nervous because I know I'm on her mind and everything I do shes interpreting... How should I play my game with her? I don't want to date her just get what I need.

Thanks!!!!

 

[Ace of Flames]

Tell her exactly what you want. WHOA, MIND BLOWING! Calm down, I know its out there, but bear with me. ^_^

Just sit her down, tell her that you've figured out that she's crazy about you, and tell her how you want to handle it. Say what you told us. "I don't want a relationship right now, but we could be friends with benefits. If that's ok with you, gimme your number and we'll hook up for some nookie later." If she goes with it, great. If not, oh well.

Simple.

 

[Sexorcist]

I mean I don't want to tell her straight up that i'm not interested because I don't want to crush her heart... I want to get some then just gradually take it to the friend zone or leave it at a safe place for myself where i can keep gettin it.

 

[Ace of Flames]

I never said to tell her you aren't interested. YOU ARE INTERESTED! lol.

I just said to be honest. You don't have to be brutal about it. Just say how you aren't looking for a relationship, which you aren't. Then offer the alternative of friends with benefits, and see how she takes it.

And btw, you'd crush her heart so much worse if you lied to her just to get some snatch. Trust me, be honest and straightforward. Showing you have the balls to ask for what you want will be a major turn-on for her.

 

[DonJuanByNature]

ohhh my gawd... dude.. are u kidding?????

THIS IS THE CORRECT ANSWER>>>

Quickly (as soon as possible) take her on a date. (i.e. dinner where you can talk) .. the reason sooner then later is cause if she is obsessing then there are high chances you wont live up to her expectations or something will go wrong, so you have to squash that over dinner...

over dinner just tell her something like this "I just got out of a long term relatinship and I am not going to be ready to be in another one for a long time, so for now I am just looking to meet people and have fun" simple and sweet.. makes you sound like a good guy, i.e. its not that you just want to get the cooch, its that you just not ready for a relationship, .. then stop right there and change the conversation to something random like "so do you like movies... what you do in spare time bla bla bla" i.e. get off the subject.. in back of her mind, as night goes by she will come to grasp that your no longer relationship material and as alcohol starts to hit you might get the cooch that night or sometime real soon with her already prepped up for "fun" only scenario

 

[sheep-man]

you like necro huh his so cool! just rap her some of edge play and shell be beggin for it, lol nah but it would be funny and she might dig it