"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chick at work considering asking out.

CuddleJunkie

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Man, 4 fuking pages telling you how putting your d¡ck and your job together is not a good idea, and you are still trying to get the forum approval. You want to fuk this girl? Go ahead, nobody is going to stop you from doing it, but stop trying to search for excuses just to get the approval of a bunch of guys on the internet.
And keep us informed about your results, so we all learn, in the end that is what counts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marmel75

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Rule number 21 : never date coworkers
Rule 3: Never fvck a fat chick even when you are desperate. It's never worth it.
 
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I think I screwed up today talking to the girls the boss lady and a coworker about my past she pried it out of me! I talked about how I am not relationship guy anymore and she was like "you trying to live like hugh huffner!" no she was saying im gonna kill her lol to the girl that broke up with me so yeah I feel like somewhat of an idiot. don't know if I should ask out I am still thinking about it though man I feel like a jackass
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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marmel75

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I think I screwed up today talking to the girls the boss lady and a coworker about my past she pried it out of me! I talked about how I am not relationship guy anymore and she was like "you trying to live like hugh huffner!" no she was saying im gonna kill her lol to the girl that broke up with me so yeah I feel like somewhat of an idiot. don't know if I should ask out I am still thinking about it though man I feel like a jackass
Just invite her out to the buffet.
 

parkthebus

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People are going to get tired of this. If you want to ask her out then just do it. You know we're all going to tell you the same.
 
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