Maximus Rex
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Stop deflecting and answer the question. You told dude not listen to my advice under the guise of it being negative. What exactly was wrong or negative about my advice?@Maximus Rex why so angry?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Stop deflecting and answer the question. You told dude not listen to my advice under the guise of it being negative. What exactly was wrong or negative about my advice?@Maximus Rex why so angry?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nearly everything you said was negative. If you can't see that, I don't think you'd be open to my criticism anyway so I'm not gonna spend ages telling you how everything was negative.Stop deflecting and answer the question. You told dude not listen to my advice under the guise of it being negative. What exactly was wrong or negative about my advice?
Again, you're over here deflecting. You're over here saying that I say negative sh*t, yet can't find one of example of me being negative, not even in the every f*cking thread that made you say such an asinine comment. So I'll ask you again, what was wrong and negative in what I said this thread?Nearly everything you said was negative. If you can't see that, I don't think you'd be open to my criticism anyway so I'm not gonna spend ages telling you how everything was negative.
Ok I'll give you one example. You called him an attention *****ing *****.Again, you're over here deflecting. You're over here saying that I say negative sh*t, yet can't find one of example of me being negative, not even in the every ****ing thread that made you say such an asinine comment. So I'll ask you again, what was wrong and negative in what I said this thread?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How is that negative? Dude likes it when his co-workers call him funny and he keeps it 100. He likes the attention that he gets from his co-workers. Dude has also admitted to his job and the the fat b*tch that he's pursing as being the only thing that he has going on right now. His self-esteem is in toilet and he gets a likes the feelings of affirmation and validation that he gets from these chicks. If that isn't text book attention wh*ring, then pray tell what the f*ck is?Ok I'll give you one example. You called him an attention *****ing *****.
Kid, surely there's a bar or two close to your job or where you live.....you could go during happy hour specifically to practice your game (convo, viving, teasing, funny). Stay 30 - 60 mins..........you don't even have to drink. Actually better if you don't......develop your sober personality...Chill ladies lol i was just asking for advice i agree with his statements and ill keep in mind im still gonna attempt for the sake of myself and experience. Would it be weird to ask her name when i talk to her even though ive worked with her couple weeks havent interacted with her much? Im gonna start talkin to her this week
Why this chick? 1) She's your co-worker. 2) She's fat.Would it be weird to ask her name when I talk to her? Even though I''ve worked with her couple weeks haven't interacted with her much? I'm gonna start talkin' to her this week.
"Would it be weird to ask her name" how cuteChill ladies lol i was just asking for advice i agree with his statements and ill keep in mind im still gonna attempt for the sake of myself and experience. Would it be weird to ask her name when i talk to her even though ive worked with her couple weeks havent interacted with her much? Im gonna start talkin to her this week
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm starting to think you are.....thelonewolf reincarnated.......(or whatever the fvck his name was)Reykel why would I pay for it? Other peeps met thru work its worked out??
Is it cool to ask for her name though for real?
Why are you asking for the number? Obviously that PUA book isn't worth a damn because it would have advised you to take these chicks on an insta-date. Instead of going for the number close, go for an insta-date. Your results should improve.Ok I been getting numbers from chicks at clubs but they completely ignore me when I try to contact them so its a lil tough right now.
Make sure that you've successfully transitioned to female-to-male attraction. You can do this by seeing how she responds to kino and if she's qualifying herself to you. If you really want to see how cooperative she is, tell her to buy you a drink. The best way to see how much she's invested in you, is by going on a insta-date. If she agrees to it, then you have established a minimum level of trust, she's comfortable with you, and she wants to get to know you better.What are other ways to have women into you after club when her emotions are 0?
Are those people still together or married? Also some people in America have pre-arranged marriages, why don't you just go that route.Other peeps met thru work its worked out?? Is it cool to ask for her name though for real?
Is it cool to ask for her name though for real?
Actually you're pedestalizing ole girl. If you weren't you wouldn't keep seeking our approval for you to holla at her. Also, if she's so far below your sexual market value, then why are you even bothering with her? This entire thread is predicated on how much value your putting on a fat chick.I was debating. I know its just gonna be a hookup she is below my SMV.
Why do you want to establish a reputation in a job you just started at as the company the assh*le?Can i just make myself unnattractive and have her dump me when im done with her? Also i am moving offices when i pass my test and i wil not see her everyday. I dont care if she dumped me id be cool with it
Didn't say you were wrong, I said you were negative. And its negative because its non constructive criticism. If you disagree with me then we simply have different opinion of what negative is.How is that negative? Dude likes it when his co-workers call him funny and he keeps it 100. He likes the attention that he gets from his co-workers. Dude has also admitted to his job and the the fat b*tch that he's pursing as being the only thing that he has going on right now. His self-esteem is in toilet and he gets a likes the feelings of affirmation and validation that he gets from these chicks. If that isn't text book attention wh*ring, then pray tell what the f*ck is?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why did you allow it? External interruptions in field are going to happen, learn how to deal with them.I don't know alright but examples of club. Chick I made out with had a fat friend that she was with and came and interrupted
No it wouldn't of. You just didn't handle the situation properly.us so it wouldn't been possible to get an instadate.
So why didn't you put the friend in a cab and send her home? But f*ck all of that, what's your obsession with the fat ass receptionist?Another one was a designated driver and with a friend.
Why are you hellbent on f*cking a fat b*tch? How does f*cking a fat b*tch benefit you? And why do you want our blessing to try and f*ck said fat b*tch. You're a supposed to be a grown f*cking man, so why don't make the decision for yourself.Can i just do netflix and chill till she bored? How could anything bad happen from that
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.