Maximus Rex
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Stop deflecting and answer the question. You told dude not listen to my advice under the guise of it being negative. What exactly was wrong or negative about my advice?@Maximus Rex why so angry?
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Stop deflecting and answer the question. You told dude not listen to my advice under the guise of it being negative. What exactly was wrong or negative about my advice?@Maximus Rex why so angry?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nearly everything you said was negative. If you can't see that, I don't think you'd be open to my criticism anyway so I'm not gonna spend ages telling you how everything was negative.Stop deflecting and answer the question. You told dude not listen to my advice under the guise of it being negative. What exactly was wrong or negative about my advice?
Again, you're over here deflecting. You're over here saying that I say negative sh*t, yet can't find one of example of me being negative, not even in the every f*cking thread that made you say such an asinine comment. So I'll ask you again, what was wrong and negative in what I said this thread?Nearly everything you said was negative. If you can't see that, I don't think you'd be open to my criticism anyway so I'm not gonna spend ages telling you how everything was negative.
Ok I'll give you one example. You called him an attention *****ing *****.Again, you're over here deflecting. You're over here saying that I say negative sh*t, yet can't find one of example of me being negative, not even in the every ****ing thread that made you say such an asinine comment. So I'll ask you again, what was wrong and negative in what I said this thread?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How is that negative? Dude likes it when his co-workers call him funny and he keeps it 100. He likes the attention that he gets from his co-workers. Dude has also admitted to his job and the the fat b*tch that he's pursing as being the only thing that he has going on right now. His self-esteem is in toilet and he gets a likes the feelings of affirmation and validation that he gets from these chicks. If that isn't text book attention wh*ring, then pray tell what the f*ck is?Ok I'll give you one example. You called him an attention *****ing *****.
Kid, surely there's a bar or two close to your job or where you live.....you could go during happy hour specifically to practice your game (convo, viving, teasing, funny). Stay 30 - 60 mins..........you don't even have to drink. Actually better if you don't......develop your sober personality...Chill ladies lol i was just asking for advice i agree with his statements and ill keep in mind im still gonna attempt for the sake of myself and experience. Would it be weird to ask her name when i talk to her even though ive worked with her couple weeks havent interacted with her much? Im gonna start talkin to her this week
Why this chick? 1) She's your co-worker. 2) She's fat.Would it be weird to ask her name when I talk to her? Even though I''ve worked with her couple weeks haven't interacted with her much? I'm gonna start talkin' to her this week.
"Would it be weird to ask her name" how cuteChill ladies lol i was just asking for advice i agree with his statements and ill keep in mind im still gonna attempt for the sake of myself and experience. Would it be weird to ask her name when i talk to her even though ive worked with her couple weeks havent interacted with her much? Im gonna start talkin to her this week
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm starting to think you are.....thelonewolf reincarnated.......(or whatever the fvck his name was)Reykel why would I pay for it? Other peeps met thru work its worked out??
Is it cool to ask for her name though for real?
Why are you asking for the number? Obviously that PUA book isn't worth a damn because it would have advised you to take these chicks on an insta-date. Instead of going for the number close, go for an insta-date. Your results should improve.Ok I been getting numbers from chicks at clubs but they completely ignore me when I try to contact them so its a lil tough right now.
Make sure that you've successfully transitioned to female-to-male attraction. You can do this by seeing how she responds to kino and if she's qualifying herself to you. If you really want to see how cooperative she is, tell her to buy you a drink. The best way to see how much she's invested in you, is by going on a insta-date. If she agrees to it, then you have established a minimum level of trust, she's comfortable with you, and she wants to get to know you better.What are other ways to have women into you after club when her emotions are 0?
Are those people still together or married? Also some people in America have pre-arranged marriages, why don't you just go that route.Other peeps met thru work its worked out?? Is it cool to ask for her name though for real?
Is it cool to ask for her name though for real?
Actually you're pedestalizing ole girl. If you weren't you wouldn't keep seeking our approval for you to holla at her. Also, if she's so far below your sexual market value, then why are you even bothering with her? This entire thread is predicated on how much value your putting on a fat chick.I was debating. I know its just gonna be a hookup she is below my SMV.
Why do you want to establish a reputation in a job you just started at as the company the assh*le?Can i just make myself unnattractive and have her dump me when im done with her? Also i am moving offices when i pass my test and i wil not see her everyday. I dont care if she dumped me id be cool with it
Didn't say you were wrong, I said you were negative. And its negative because its non constructive criticism. If you disagree with me then we simply have different opinion of what negative is.How is that negative? Dude likes it when his co-workers call him funny and he keeps it 100. He likes the attention that he gets from his co-workers. Dude has also admitted to his job and the the fat b*tch that he's pursing as being the only thing that he has going on right now. His self-esteem is in toilet and he gets a likes the feelings of affirmation and validation that he gets from these chicks. If that isn't text book attention wh*ring, then pray tell what the f*ck is?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why did you allow it? External interruptions in field are going to happen, learn how to deal with them.I don't know alright but examples of club. Chick I made out with had a fat friend that she was with and came and interrupted
No it wouldn't of. You just didn't handle the situation properly.us so it wouldn't been possible to get an instadate.
So why didn't you put the friend in a cab and send her home? But f*ck all of that, what's your obsession with the fat ass receptionist?Another one was a designated driver and with a friend.
Why are you hellbent on f*cking a fat b*tch? How does f*cking a fat b*tch benefit you? And why do you want our blessing to try and f*ck said fat b*tch. You're a supposed to be a grown f*cking man, so why don't make the decision for yourself.Can i just do netflix and chill till she bored? How could anything bad happen from that
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.