"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chick asks advice columnist if she should sleep with celebrity cad

MatureDJ

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I found this interesting:

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/..._a_celebrity_cad_should_i_sleep_with_him.html

I met a celebrity through my volunteer work, and we have flirted ever since we met. I'm young, unattached, and enjoy the occasional one night stand. This man has made it clear he wants to wine and dine me and then take me back to his place, and I'd take him up on the offer—I’m wildly attracted to his intensity and his passion for this cause—except for his tumultuous past. You can't believe everything you read, but he has a pretty dodgy reputation, and his outbursts have sent him to jail before. He has always been kind to me and the people around me, but it's also difficult to ignore how poorly he's treated women in the past. Would I be a bad person if I threw caution to the wind and had a brief fling with this person? I'm not interested in his money, his fame, or having a future with him.
It seems that this chick's hamster inclinations are to sleep with this double alpha male (i.e., both a celebrity AND a bad boy), but her responsible side is against it. This sounds like the typical woman's thought process - emotions to do the thing that makes her gina tingle, but with the thought in the back of her mind that it is against the anti-slut meme that the matriarchy has (or at least had at an earlier time in history) as well as against her long term interests.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She already is 99 percent sure she's gonna F him. She posted the question because she wanted some "You go girl" "Hi-Five" of sorts to get her to 100 percent and to receive absolution for her "sin" ahead of time so she doesn't feel slutty. In short, she wanted "permission" and an "It's ok; do it" pat on the back.

The "Dear A b by" lady gave the token "Use a condom" advice.

But she's definitely gonna raw dog this guy. Mike32ct will bet his last dollar on that.
 
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