"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Chick Alwaysss Testing at work. BUt I call her on her B.S.

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theres this chick always testing on everything. I call on her bull Sh1t whenever she does it.. and specially when it is obvious.

For example:
SHe's carrying a bag of something that she can normally carry.. she would still ask for my help out of all the people in "HER DEPARTMENT". I would respond by saying "common, you can normally do that on your own. You don't need my help" then she would push it more by saying "PLEASEE PLEASEE, COMMON, PLEASE"

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I would be talking on my phone and she would try to get my attention just to "ASK FOR THE TIME" !!!!!!!!!! LOL...

SO, when a chick asks you a favor then says "PLEASEE PLEAASE, common please"

would you do it or still refuse to by calling on her B.S.

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Back then I would have done what any girl asked me to do. But after being here on sosuave, i see everything clearly like the matrix when NEO started seeing the 1010100010101 everywhere.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No the difference is normal people only ask for your help when it involves something they can't do themselves. I have exactly the same situation at work right now, this loud mouthed biotch has everyone else doing her work for her and i heard her bragging about it to her boss.
Of course all the AFCs at work love being her b1tch.

I'm straight up ignoring her now, and i'm gonna bring in an ipod starting this week so i don't have to listen to her at all.

If she asks you to carry something for her just say: Sorry, i have work to do. Continue doing your work while she whines. If she continues... tell HR that's she's harassing you.
 
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It's simple. If it was a guy, would you do it? Normally I'm a pretty helpful person, so if they ask for help with something they'll get it. It's not a matter of being a pushover, but it's not a lot of trouble to help someone.

What you can do if you want is to **** test her back by asking her to help you and using the same kind of "PLEEEAASSEEE" ^_^
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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