"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chick Alwaysss Testing at work. BUt I call her on her B.S.

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theres this chick always testing on everything. I call on her bull Sh1t whenever she does it.. and specially when it is obvious.

For example:
SHe's carrying a bag of something that she can normally carry.. she would still ask for my help out of all the people in "HER DEPARTMENT". I would respond by saying "common, you can normally do that on your own. You don't need my help" then she would push it more by saying "PLEASEE PLEASEE, COMMON, PLEASE"

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I would be talking on my phone and she would try to get my attention just to "ASK FOR THE TIME" !!!!!!!!!! LOL...

SO, when a chick asks you a favor then says "PLEASEE PLEAASE, common please"

would you do it or still refuse to by calling on her B.S.

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Back then I would have done what any girl asked me to do. But after being here on sosuave, i see everything clearly like the matrix when NEO started seeing the 1010100010101 everywhere.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No the difference is normal people only ask for your help when it involves something they can't do themselves. I have exactly the same situation at work right now, this loud mouthed biotch has everyone else doing her work for her and i heard her bragging about it to her boss.
Of course all the AFCs at work love being her b1tch.

I'm straight up ignoring her now, and i'm gonna bring in an ipod starting this week so i don't have to listen to her at all.

If she asks you to carry something for her just say: Sorry, i have work to do. Continue doing your work while she whines. If she continues... tell HR that's she's harassing you.
 
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It's simple. If it was a guy, would you do it? Normally I'm a pretty helpful person, so if they ask for help with something they'll get it. It's not a matter of being a pushover, but it's not a lot of trouble to help someone.

What you can do if you want is to **** test her back by asking her to help you and using the same kind of "PLEEEAASSEEE" ^_^
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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