"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Chicago Wingman for this weekend?
- Thread starter Intense
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
Chicago is elite. I didn't go downtown b/c we were staying to far out of the city. We went to downtown Naperville and around Northern IL to Mollys. Needless to say I the DJing was quite fun. Executed many cold approaches, some virutally flawless and others far from it. Got a lot of numbers but only two were worthwhile, the others I was just practicing. HB8 and and HB7. I later set up and went on a date with the HB7. Haven't contacted the HB8 yet. Great town, can't wait to come back.
Intense.
k_hectic
Don Juan
I moved recently here, living in Lombard. Any cool bars or clubs other than the ones in Downtown Naperville and North Beach or Rip Rocks?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.