"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Chicago Wingman for this weekend?
- Thread starter Intense
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
Chicago is elite. I didn't go downtown b/c we were staying to far out of the city. We went to downtown Naperville and around Northern IL to Mollys. Needless to say I the DJing was quite fun. Executed many cold approaches, some virutally flawless and others far from it. Got a lot of numbers but only two were worthwhile, the others I was just practicing. HB8 and and HB7. I later set up and went on a date with the HB7. Haven't contacted the HB8 yet. Great town, can't wait to come back.
Intense.
k_hectic
Don Juan
I moved recently here, living in Lombard. Any cool bars or clubs other than the ones in Downtown Naperville and North Beach or Rip Rocks?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.