"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chest without benching?

Crazy Asian

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So i can't bench because i hurt my shoulder.

I heard that if you do "big lifts" it will effect your whole body.

So does that mean that if i only do squats and deadlifts, by the time my shoulder gets better, i'll be able to bench more than i did before?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Warboss Alex

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Your chest might grow from just doing squats and deadlifts but your bench won't necessarily go up as you are not training the move itself. But the added muscle will help you progress quicker when you do start benching again
 

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I'm really starting to think people need to take care of their shoulder issues. It just seems so many people have problems and a lot that don't hurt yet are just asking for it to start hurting sooner or later given how inflexible their shoulders are.

I'm currently fixing my shoulders that slump forward through stretches and stuff and in about 4 days i'm already slumping less. Luckily i am fairly flexible already but there is some impingement and one side is slightly less flexible than the other.

I remember walking the indoor track in college and would have people make fun of me for stretching my arms behind my back and over my head and doing arm circles and things like that while i walked around... but at least it's paid off since wayyy too many people can't even touch their elbows together or touch their hands behind their back.
 

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mrRukus what stretches do you reccomend? I think I might be ok because I can touch my hands behind my back.
 

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never stretch your shoulders!!!
it's soo bad for you.
just rub it back and forth.

the olympic trainers gave a presentation about this as i mentioned earlier.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do you have a link to this presentation? Professional trainers of olympic athletes are advising that you do not stretch? what reasons do they give? I'd like to watch the presentation if you would link it.
 

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that's it. people are too fvcking stupid to bother any more
 
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