"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What exercises help make that space between your chest close in?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Flyers is the easiest thing to do if you want to hit the inner pecs...

You could try to do close grip, but you really have to squeeze your pecs when you have the barbell up to maximise the effectiveness of the exercise, otherwise its your your chest and your triceps being worked on.
 

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Close grip chest exercises, Dumb bell flyes, pushups with arms closer to chest. When your chest is expansive and there's a "valley" your chest is expanding and the inner chest muscle isn't getting worked out. If you do your usual chest workouts, concentrate less on size and working those inner chest muscles. I recently had this problem and I'm seeing results of me concentrating my efforts on the inner chest muscle area.
 

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Ummm... guys, there's no such thing as an 'inner pec'. There is pec major and pec minor, but no inner pec. If you're worried about the lack of muscle over the sternum (breast bone) then don't, it's normal. There are no exercises you can do to grow muscle where there is no muscle.
 

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Originally posted by manuva
Ummm... guys, there's no such thing as an 'inner pec'. There is pec major and pec minor, but no inner pec. If you're worried about the lack of muscle over the sternum (breast bone) then don't, it's normal. There are no exercises you can do to grow muscle where there is no muscle.
Listen to the man!

I thought I answered this topic yesterday .. either way, just build up your pecs, the chest grows as one muscle and hasn't got components to isolate..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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there is no inner chest that you can work out in isolation like you could, say rear deltoids. do your presses, eat lots, and hopefully your pec muscles will gain size and thickness that gives them the appearance of being pressed together and forming that tight line in the middle. and if they don't, it's genetic.
 

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Thank you for clearing that up. Just my genetics.
 

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Anything that works the chest.
any form of benchpress incline decline bb db wide grip close grip.
 
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