"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chest valley

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What exercises help make that space between your chest close in?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flyers is the easiest thing to do if you want to hit the inner pecs...

You could try to do close grip, but you really have to squeeze your pecs when you have the barbell up to maximise the effectiveness of the exercise, otherwise its your your chest and your triceps being worked on.
 

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Close grip chest exercises, Dumb bell flyes, pushups with arms closer to chest. When your chest is expansive and there's a "valley" your chest is expanding and the inner chest muscle isn't getting worked out. If you do your usual chest workouts, concentrate less on size and working those inner chest muscles. I recently had this problem and I'm seeing results of me concentrating my efforts on the inner chest muscle area.
 

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Ummm... guys, there's no such thing as an 'inner pec'. There is pec major and pec minor, but no inner pec. If you're worried about the lack of muscle over the sternum (breast bone) then don't, it's normal. There are no exercises you can do to grow muscle where there is no muscle.
 

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Originally posted by manuva
Ummm... guys, there's no such thing as an 'inner pec'. There is pec major and pec minor, but no inner pec. If you're worried about the lack of muscle over the sternum (breast bone) then don't, it's normal. There are no exercises you can do to grow muscle where there is no muscle.
Listen to the man!

I thought I answered this topic yesterday .. either way, just build up your pecs, the chest grows as one muscle and hasn't got components to isolate..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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there is no inner chest that you can work out in isolation like you could, say rear deltoids. do your presses, eat lots, and hopefully your pec muscles will gain size and thickness that gives them the appearance of being pressed together and forming that tight line in the middle. and if they don't, it's genetic.
 

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Thank you for clearing that up. Just my genetics.
 

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Anything that works the chest.
any form of benchpress incline decline bb db wide grip close grip.
 
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