"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chest hair..

How often do you shave your chest?

  • Frequently. Hairy chests are nasty.

    Votes: 16 32.7%
  • Only upon request. As long as I'm getting some, I'll do whatever she wants.

    Votes: 4 8.2%
  • Never. F*ck that metro sh!t. I'm a man, b!tch.

    Votes: 29 59.2%

  • Total voters
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GropeDope

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I know there are a lot of threads about this, but I want to see some actual figures here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Soprano

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Never. F*ck that metro sh!t. I'm a man, b!tch.
 

Jukeboxhero

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You need to put the option up there. "Never: because I don't have any/enough to shave"--that's me, right there!
 

DonJuanMonk

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Some guys don't grow chest hair like me. I think chest hair is friggin nasty if you're skinny, I've know a dude.
 

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my dads girlfriend owns a body sugaring business, she says that the only guys who come in to get their chests waxed are super athletic muscular dudes, or gay dudes.

I think its gay, keep your chest hairs, trim your pubes a bit to keep it out of her mouth, but thats it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ER!C L!VE

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Originally posted by JH6
super athletic muscular dudes.
Those are usually the guys getting the most pvssy. ;)

I've talked to many women about it. Most, when asked their honest opinion, do not like chest hair.
 

Soprano

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Those are usually the guys getting the most pvssy. ;)
But thsoe are also usually also the ones with shriveled up junk from all the roids ;)
 

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Im italian so that **** is out of control. Usually wax the back and buzz the front with my hair clippers.
 

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Chest Hair

I would never do it if I was asked to grow it out. I dislike chest hair because it looks unattractive in my mind.

Shave that **** at least two times a month.
 

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Well, here's the sad truth for me. I don't have chest hair but those hair grow on my nipples.

and I shave it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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italostud

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I braided mine into cornrows. I can't be the only one..??? :confused:
 

thefonz

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Howard Stern talked about this and mentioned a poll taken about the question

Turns out that women prefer men with chest hair, but the chest should be shaved with clippers or something so it doesn't get out of control sort of sheepskinned
 

GropeDope

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I am pleased with the results. :rockon:
 

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Man I've got like 3 hairs growing out of my chest, about 2cm each.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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spider_007

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Originally posted by rebirth
Well, here's the sad truth for me. I don't have chest hair but those hair grow on my nipples.

and I shave it.
are you in your teens?

hate to break it to you but your gona be one hairy guy (probably even the back) same **** happened to me it started around the nipples (LONG balck hair)
 

thederekeffect1

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This is one area where I'd have to go against "being a man". But shaving any part of your body besides your face on a guy is always a controversial topic. It's also a controversial topic where metrosexual starts. A lot of people say it starts when you shave your body hair. I say it starts after. In my opinion metrosexual is when you start getting manicures and using 5 different products just to clean your hair.

I personally do shave my chest hair every once in awhile. Depending on my mood, I guess. Sometimes I want change so I shave body hair.
 

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In the past I've shaved my arms, legs, chest, back, shoulders, nutsack and crotch.
 

WhitePimp

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I'm a hairy bastard. I wax my back since shaving it is a ***** and never looks right and it's getting a lot finer and lighter which is good. My chest hair is in control but I do shave some bulk out near the bellybutton and nipples. Pubes I trim down, ass hairs I shave off, leg hair I'm ambivalent about. But the ass and back are the main ones that bother me so I make sure to take care of them
 
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