"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chest hair..

How often do you shave your chest?

  • Frequently. Hairy chests are nasty.

    Votes: 16 32.7%
  • Only upon request. As long as I'm getting some, I'll do whatever she wants.

    Votes: 4 8.2%
  • Never. F*ck that metro sh!t. I'm a man, b!tch.

    Votes: 29 59.2%

  • Total voters
    49

GropeDope

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I know there are a lot of threads about this, but I want to see some actual figures here.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Soprano

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Never. F*ck that metro sh!t. I'm a man, b!tch.
 

Jukeboxhero

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You need to put the option up there. "Never: because I don't have any/enough to shave"--that's me, right there!
 

DonJuanMonk

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Some guys don't grow chest hair like me. I think chest hair is friggin nasty if you're skinny, I've know a dude.
 

JH6

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my dads girlfriend owns a body sugaring business, she says that the only guys who come in to get their chests waxed are super athletic muscular dudes, or gay dudes.

I think its gay, keep your chest hairs, trim your pubes a bit to keep it out of her mouth, but thats it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ER!C L!VE

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Originally posted by JH6
super athletic muscular dudes.
Those are usually the guys getting the most pvssy. ;)

I've talked to many women about it. Most, when asked their honest opinion, do not like chest hair.
 

Soprano

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
Those are usually the guys getting the most pvssy. ;)
But thsoe are also usually also the ones with shriveled up junk from all the roids ;)
 

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Im italian so that **** is out of control. Usually wax the back and buzz the front with my hair clippers.
 

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Chest Hair

I would never do it if I was asked to grow it out. I dislike chest hair because it looks unattractive in my mind.

Shave that **** at least two times a month.
 

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Well, here's the sad truth for me. I don't have chest hair but those hair grow on my nipples.

and I shave it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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italostud

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I braided mine into cornrows. I can't be the only one..??? :confused:
 

thefonz

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Howard Stern talked about this and mentioned a poll taken about the question

Turns out that women prefer men with chest hair, but the chest should be shaved with clippers or something so it doesn't get out of control sort of sheepskinned
 

GropeDope

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I am pleased with the results. :rockon:
 

diplomatic_lies

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Man I've got like 3 hairs growing out of my chest, about 2cm each.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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spider_007

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Originally posted by rebirth
Well, here's the sad truth for me. I don't have chest hair but those hair grow on my nipples.

and I shave it.
are you in your teens?

hate to break it to you but your gona be one hairy guy (probably even the back) same **** happened to me it started around the nipples (LONG balck hair)
 

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This is one area where I'd have to go against "being a man". But shaving any part of your body besides your face on a guy is always a controversial topic. It's also a controversial topic where metrosexual starts. A lot of people say it starts when you shave your body hair. I say it starts after. In my opinion metrosexual is when you start getting manicures and using 5 different products just to clean your hair.

I personally do shave my chest hair every once in awhile. Depending on my mood, I guess. Sometimes I want change so I shave body hair.
 

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In the past I've shaved my arms, legs, chest, back, shoulders, nutsack and crotch.
 

WhitePimp

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I'm a hairy bastard. I wax my back since shaving it is a ***** and never looks right and it's getting a lot finer and lighter which is good. My chest hair is in control but I do shave some bulk out near the bellybutton and nipples. Pubes I trim down, ass hairs I shave off, leg hair I'm ambivalent about. But the ass and back are the main ones that bother me so I make sure to take care of them
 
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