"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Can you have chemistry with a girl but the girl just isn't interested in you?

I mean I'm talking everyone who see's us thinks we're a couple, fight like a couple, etc., etc. but she balks when i ask her out.

If we in a public setting I purposely don't give her any attention but she always gravitates towards me. And the personal space barrier is definitely broken...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Friend zone?!?
 
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PS79 said:
Can you have chemistry with a girl but the girl just isn't interested in you?
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Yes. You like the girl,you're attracted to her,you feel something when you look at her,but she isn't interested in you.

PS79 said:
I mean I'm talking everyone who see's us thinks we're a couple, fight like a couple, etc., etc. but she balks when i ask her out.
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Yeah,I agree with the above poster. This is friendzone alley with a twist of AW mixed in.

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If we in a public setting I purposely don't give her any attention but she always gravitates towards me. And the personal space barrier is definitely broken...
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Yep,you called it. She gravitates towards you not because she likes you or is interested in you,but because she likes male attention. My guess is she's probably already seeing or in the beginning stages of seeing someone she does have chemistry with,while using the attention you give her to tied her over until the other relationship gets established. Once that happens,then the amount of time and attention she's currently getting from you will decrease.
 
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