"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Can you have chemistry with a girl but the girl just isn't interested in you?

I mean I'm talking everyone who see's us thinks we're a couple, fight like a couple, etc., etc. but she balks when i ask her out.

If we in a public setting I purposely don't give her any attention but she always gravitates towards me. And the personal space barrier is definitely broken...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Friend zone?!?
 
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PS79 said:
Can you have chemistry with a girl but the girl just isn't interested in you?
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Yes. You like the girl,you're attracted to her,you feel something when you look at her,but she isn't interested in you.

PS79 said:
I mean I'm talking everyone who see's us thinks we're a couple, fight like a couple, etc., etc. but she balks when i ask her out.
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Yeah,I agree with the above poster. This is friendzone alley with a twist of AW mixed in.

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If we in a public setting I purposely don't give her any attention but she always gravitates towards me. And the personal space barrier is definitely broken...
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Yep,you called it. She gravitates towards you not because she likes you or is interested in you,but because she likes male attention. My guess is she's probably already seeing or in the beginning stages of seeing someone she does have chemistry with,while using the attention you give her to tied her over until the other relationship gets established. Once that happens,then the amount of time and attention she's currently getting from you will decrease.
 
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