"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Can you have chemistry with a girl but the girl just isn't interested in you?

I mean I'm talking everyone who see's us thinks we're a couple, fight like a couple, etc., etc. but she balks when i ask her out.

If we in a public setting I purposely don't give her any attention but she always gravitates towards me. And the personal space barrier is definitely broken...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Friend zone?!?
 
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PS79 said:
Can you have chemistry with a girl but the girl just isn't interested in you?
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Yes. You like the girl,you're attracted to her,you feel something when you look at her,but she isn't interested in you.

PS79 said:
I mean I'm talking everyone who see's us thinks we're a couple, fight like a couple, etc., etc. but she balks when i ask her out.
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Yeah,I agree with the above poster. This is friendzone alley with a twist of AW mixed in.

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If we in a public setting I purposely don't give her any attention but she always gravitates towards me. And the personal space barrier is definitely broken...
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Yep,you called it. She gravitates towards you not because she likes you or is interested in you,but because she likes male attention. My guess is she's probably already seeing or in the beginning stages of seeing someone she does have chemistry with,while using the attention you give her to tied her over until the other relationship gets established. Once that happens,then the amount of time and attention she's currently getting from you will decrease.
 
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