"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey,

I'm not from America, but next year I go to America.
I also go to school there and I come in a junior or senior class.
I really want to be a cheerleader, but if I am a senior can I still be a cheerleader or am I too old? And when are the cheerleader tryouts?

Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Eline said:
Hey,

I'm not from America, but next year I go to America.
I also go to school there and I come in a junior or senior class.
I really want to be a cheerleader, but if I am a senior can I still be a cheerleader or am I too old? And when are the cheerleader tryouts?

Thanks!
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Uhh...girl or guy?
 
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shouldn't matter anyway?
 
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I know a guy who cheerleads for basketball at my college. In really good shape with a really hot girlfriend. But I wouldn't recommend it in high school. I think this is someone pretending to be a girl to troll.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eline said:
I really want to be a cheerleader, but if I am a senior can I still be a cheerleader or am I too old? And when are the cheerleader tryouts?
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I am not from America but I do not think it matters whether you are a senior or not. As for the try outs, that is something you will have to check with your school.
 
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Of course it matters moron...a girl becoming a cheerleader is natural and usually gets them a whole buncha d*** throughout high school.

But if this is a guy, it's essentially social suicide.
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thanks for insulting me, I was answering the OP bout junior or senior year, didn't read your response...

sensitive...
and naa, it's not social suicide if you do it right, a couple guys I know are the **** at a local school, they were yell leaders during basketball season, our school thought it was cool... not that big of a deal
Most of my schools cheerleaders (all girls) are ugly,well... fat, so its not much of a bonus here... really depends on the school
our cheerleader "coach" is a feminist ****, so she wont let guys in anyway... maybe why we thought it was cool


Edit: am I the only one who's curious why this got asked here anyway?
 
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Oh haha is this a forum only for boys? I am a girl.

I just had this question and typt in google high school forum, so i came here.
Are there cheerleaders who are ugly and fat! Is it not like in movies?:)moreover are there schools where are not cheerleaders?

My last question is my englisch perfect?
Haha thanks!
 
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Eline said:
Oh haha is this a forum only for boys? I am a girl.

I just had this question and typt in google high school forum, so i came here.
Are there cheerleaders who are ugly and fat! Is it not like in movies?:)moreover are there schools where are not cheerleaders?

My last question is my englisch perfect?
Haha thanks!
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This forum is mostly for guys who want to learn to pick up girls.

Cheerleaders are generally attractive and in good shape.

There are schools without cheerleaders I'm sure, but it is very rare. Any school with sports teams should have cheerleaders.

Your English is good but needs work.
 
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