"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cheeky

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do you americans know what cheeky is?

I was talking to a gal from america and i used the word cheeky and she said she had never heard that word before!

I had to explain what it meant to her, and it opened up all sorts of confusion with words that us the english use and the americans either havent heard of it or use it for another meaning!

I also ended the discussion that pointing out that you the americans are using our language because were amazing and if you dont use it correctly then you shouldnt be using it at all!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Create Reality
doesnt it mean cute?
It's more along the lines of "saucy".
 

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Jizz, there are a lot of words people aren't going to know... just pretend they know, and they will ask if it means something to them.

Cheeky is a good word tough.

*I pinched her bottom* so she turns to me and says "mother always told me to turn the other cheek"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bolloks.

Cheeky is not Saucy.

Cheeky is Playfully Naughty.

sexual innuendo is cheeky.
 

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lol... I was travelling in Thailand about a year ago... and there's many Brits.

Anyways... this thread topic/word... was pretty much my opener.

"Hey whats your definition of cheeky!?"

One time I asked some chick this question while unconciously grabbing her a$$...

She answered with... "some guy that you just met, that asks you what the word cheeky means... all the while he's grabbing your a$$!" lmao

That was the best definition I got. :D

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cheeky is like sassy, or sarcastic, running your mouth about stuff you shouldn't. Thats the best I can put it.
 
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