"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Checking her number...

Buck Naked

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As we all know chicks can easily give out the wrong number. A chick i met did this to me once and i thought it was a good idea. I read b4 that a good way to check the number is change the last digit and see if she corrects you, what this chick taught me was call the number AFTER u get it. Most chicks have their cell phone with them. Next time a chick gives u a CELL number, call it, and if she has the phone with her and it rings, all is good, if it doesnt ring than u know it is a false and number and u can NEXT her.

Also, if she gives u BOTH home and cell numbers, thats another good sign, but i think most of us knew that.

~JD~
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mercenary

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Originally posted by Buck Naked
Most chicks have their cell phone with them. Next time a chick gives u a CELL number, call it, and if she has the phone with her and it rings, all is good, if it doesnt ring than u know it is a false and number and u can NEXT her.
The downside to this is that she has access to your number right away. One woman gave me her number and I called it right away like i usually do, but then she proceeded to call me 4 times that same night to see if we could "get together", and then once again the next day.

The phone number thing is a trifle really. You should KNOW whether she is interested or not. If she's interested, it will be a real number. Focus on gauging interest and increasing rapport.
 

HHloser2

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It will be real if shes interested, If its fake then she isnt and next her,
 

Dictatorsaurus

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Dude, this is garbage!! Just call the darn number she gave you, if its a wrong or an invalid number, just move on. Its as simple as that.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Dictatorsaurus
Dude, this is garbage!! Just call the darn number she gave you, if its a wrong or an invalid number, just move on. Its as simple as that.
Thank you...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pain_free

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just verbally repeat the number back to her to "reconfirm" that you've got it right, but intentionally say the last digit wrongly and see how she reacts...if she's really interested she would know that you've got her number wrong.

But if she's like "yeah sure" then you know where to draw your conclusions:cheer:
 

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PLUS what if she's got it on vibrate or silent. Then what?

I agree with just calling and if it's fake then forget her.
 

AdrenalynJunkee

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Also, calling the number right away sort of gives the impression that you're needy. I'd rather leave her with the thought "When is he going to call me?" for a couple days. The 'repeat the wrong number' deal is perfectly fine.
 
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