"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chosen1

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I have so much **** going on in my life it's pathetic. One of you guys everywomanshero wrote this awhile back

"The guy she was nailing that she divorced you hoping to have a relationship with gets cold feet or pisses her off, she's angry, she saw him with another woman, heard he took another girl out, or whatever. She feels angry/frustrated/hurt, and she wants to feel better about herself so then she does the ex-husband. If the guy completely ditches her, she may even try to get you back."

This is the realest **** I ever read ever. I'm checking my ex's voicemail. Ok, first let me say that she is actling like she wants to be in a realationship with me (we just bleeping divorced) She tells me she loves me all the damn time which I don't always respond. So back to the story, I'm checking her voicemail and I hear a voicemail from an angry female. My ex who's name is toni was ****ing this guy and doing god knows what with him. She told me awhile back she had sex with him, but came back with "oh we didn't do anything". I'm like b!tch please.

I feel like the mutherfvckn honey moon is over. NOone and I repeat NOone wants to be with her. I'm at her apartment right now because she gots food. I'm gonna ask this b!tch (yes I call her b!tch to her face) one more time did she have sex with this man which I know the answer to this. She said us being in a realtionship is on me, right now I don't think I want that. I know what a lot of you guys would have done so let's skip this. Besides I'm retarded for talking to her what do you guys think???
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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P.S if I ask her if any of this is true she says know nobody knows me or how I feel blah blah blah. You guys were right all along with nomarriage
 

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checking someone's email is not what a don juan does.
why would you bother asking her ONE LAST TIME if she messed around with this guy? you already believe she did, you already checked her messages and confirmed it through the one chick's message... so that leaves with with the truth of what you need to know.
you shouldn't be hanging around in her apartment to ask her what you already know.
you don't need this drama and neither does she.

at this point, a don juan would not stand around to hackle the semantics of who is right and who is wrong. a don juan would say NEXT!
 

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penkitten said:
checking someone's email is not what a don juan does.
why would you bother asking her ONE LAST TIME if she messed around with this guy? you already believe she did, you already checked her messages and confirmed it through the one chick's message... so that leaves with with the truth of what you need to know.
you shouldn't be hanging around in her apartment to ask her what you already know.
you don't need this drama and neither does she.

at this point, a don juan would not stand around to hackle the semantics of who is right and who is wrong. a don juan would say NEXT!
damn right I'm outtie thanks 4 the help
 

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My ex wife is hotter than she is and I wouldn't go over there for anything that doesn't involve the kids. STOP already. STOP going over there,stop thinking about her stop posting about her and cut that particular cancer out of your life.

IF you still care about who she f&cks or did f&ck,you aren't over her.SHE knows it. I don't care if every man on this board does my ex-wife. She is as little a part of my life as I can make her be[have kids together,so it isn't total]
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chosen this is truly gettng pathetic, are you kidding me?
you still stressing over that broad? ewwww
come on bruh, you can do better I been told you that, why you even still "dealing" with her or hanging out with her? were the fucc is your self-respect
Be a fuccing man son, cast that b*tch aside and move the fucc on!!!

your divorced, you have no reason to talk to her unless its about the kids, so why you in her house getting bent out of shape on whose **** she sucking?

mate get your mind right, I told you start a journal and hit the field, why haven't you done that yet?

seriously man this is sad, I'm really starting to think either you have no self-respect what so ever, or your a troll!
 
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