"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Manonamission

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just wondering, I just cold approached a girl, and just to save time wanted to make sure that the number wasn't fake. So I blocked the caller ID when I called about 40 minutes after getting it. Turns out the number was legit, and I got her voicemail. I didn't leave a message.

Just wondering if anyone else has done this, or did i just screw it up? I'm planning on calling her on Wed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDamage

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If you are a DJ and smooth with the ladies, the less likely they will give you a fake number.

If you notice that this happens often then rather then call to check if the number is real, its best to work on your game and fix what is wrong.

DJD
 

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When you get her to read her number out, read it back to her BUT change a number, so when you read it back and say a false number, she should correct you...if she doesnt, shes not worth your time..!
 

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DJDamage said:
If you are a DJ and smooth with the ladies, the less likely they will give you a fake number.

If you notice that this happens often then rather then call to check if the number is real, its best to work on your game and fix what is wrong.

DJD
I agree. You guys sound like you need to work on your game. And what if the number was fake? So fvcking what?! You act as if your lives depend upon women giving you real #'s. :rolleyes:
 

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well the number was real.....so I don't think I did anything wrong, in fact I will post the conversation

me: hey, i know this may sound weird, but you look really familiar...do I know you from somewhere?
her: hey...no I don't think so but you look familiar to me too.
me: where do you go to school?
her: BLANK University, what about you
me: Blank university, would you mind giving me your number?
her: sure, you can have it. hold on a second.

Then I waited in line after I bought stuff from the store, it's not like I had time to conduct a 10 minute conversation. I was in line buying energy drinks at a Target. So I thought I did pretty well.

As for repeating the number back, I typically do that, but like I said she was busy working.

Considering the amount of time I had to get the damn number, i thought I did a pretty good job.

Thanks for the replies guys, I'll keep you updated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Number Exchange

Some how double posted. Se the information below.
 

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In the age of cell phones, how hard (or easy rather) is it to get the girls number, call her cell phone, (which is no doubt present) and the both of you save each other's names? That way there's no doubt as to if you have her correct number, and also know she has the ablity to call you and you'll recognize the number.
 
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Yea, if its from cell phone give her a call immediately then so she has your #...tell her "I dont like picking up calls from #'s I dont recognize, so i'm calling you right now so you have mine"
 

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LOL, why do you worry if the number is fake desperate AFC? If it's fake, you got rejected, WHO CARES.
 

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Macgyver said:
LOL, why do you worry if the number is fake desperate AFC? If it's fake, you got rejected, WHO CARES.
Gimme a break im new at this ****. Jesus christ.

At least I had the balls to go up and try a cold approach. What do you expect me to be a master after a month of this?

Piss off. I don't care if you're 10 times the DJ I'll ever be, dont talk to me like I'm your *****.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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agreed, get off this kids nuts.

There is room between AFC and D.J. Just because someone isn't a D.J. for whatever reason you decided, does not mean he is AFC. The guy did a fine job, go get her, pal.
 
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