"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I posted there as dominicano224. Everybody there is a 100% AFC, and think they know about women. some responses are price less (pages 2-5). it will test your afc-o-meter. leave a message if you like to enlighten them. this is worst then girl problems.com.

http://http://www.trumpetherald.com...start=20&sid=0d7df7161a6eb7c94b807a75b050e48e

if the link dosen't work, then go to trumpetherald.com,
and click on forum, then go all the way down to the lounge forum
and check out the thread "girl question"

trust me it is worth it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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wcknightjr

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HAHAHA!

You can always tell the DJ's from the AFC's. I just didn't realize how freakin obvious it was!

It's like Neo going back into the matrix after being led out to see the real world. Everyone would think he's crazy if he went around telling people the real ways of the world, which is kinda what you did there. You could see a few others like you posting, but most were still in there little cave, trying to keep that poor kid in there with them. I think that kid would have been best served by being told about this site.

Classic "allegory of the cave" stuff. If you haven't read it do so, or just watch the first matrix again and pay attention.
 

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Lifeforce made a post on the Tips section a few weeks ago about how newbies find this site, believe they've found the holy grail to the female psyche, and then go spouting off wildly about how perfectly they understand women.

Seems like that's what happened here. It's cool that you're trying to help people out w/ relationship advice, but come on...take it down a notch, dude.
 

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Lol, that's some funny shyt. I like the way you insulted (I'm sure you'll disagree that you were insulting him) a highly esteemed professor who might be in charge of your entry to music school.... but it's his fault for posting an answer to a question about high school dating when he's been married and out of the game for decades and decades.
 

tom121

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typing on this little space and actually doing it in the real world is another story

your right, too many player wannabes or type up a fake story just to hide his denial ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bilogomja

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Dude that is the funniest thing Ive read all day, the kid who posted the question has to be in like 5th grade.
 

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I can't believe one of them actually ragged on your English. they're cool.
 

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Jesus listen to you people.

"Look at them there AFC's, ahyuck! They don'y know nutin' about them there wimens!"

This is not the way of a true DJ.

Yet what do I know, since I've been acting more AFC-ish lately myself. Maybe I'm just speaking out of hurt.
 

smoke city

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I agree with you derek.
There are too many chumps on this site who like to bag on people based on the number of posts underneath the screen name. It's typical with forums like this...some guys think they've "seen the light" so they validate themselves not by going out and practicing (note: some of these guys still arent getting any real girls), but by trying to demean the "newbies".
The people who really "get it" and have really had success feel like they've really discovered a gold mine and are willing to share the wealth. [There are 5 or 10 solid guys on here who are like this.] When you really know what's going on, your game will flow like wine, and you'll give nothing but real advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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