"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I posted there as dominicano224. Everybody there is a 100% AFC, and think they know about women. some responses are price less (pages 2-5). it will test your afc-o-meter. leave a message if you like to enlighten them. this is worst then girl problems.com.

http://http://www.trumpetherald.com...start=20&sid=0d7df7161a6eb7c94b807a75b050e48e

if the link dosen't work, then go to trumpetherald.com,
and click on forum, then go all the way down to the lounge forum
and check out the thread "girl question"

trust me it is worth it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wcknightjr

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HAHAHA!

You can always tell the DJ's from the AFC's. I just didn't realize how freakin obvious it was!

It's like Neo going back into the matrix after being led out to see the real world. Everyone would think he's crazy if he went around telling people the real ways of the world, which is kinda what you did there. You could see a few others like you posting, but most were still in there little cave, trying to keep that poor kid in there with them. I think that kid would have been best served by being told about this site.

Classic "allegory of the cave" stuff. If you haven't read it do so, or just watch the first matrix again and pay attention.
 

affliction

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Lifeforce made a post on the Tips section a few weeks ago about how newbies find this site, believe they've found the holy grail to the female psyche, and then go spouting off wildly about how perfectly they understand women.

Seems like that's what happened here. It's cool that you're trying to help people out w/ relationship advice, but come on...take it down a notch, dude.
 

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Lol, that's some funny shyt. I like the way you insulted (I'm sure you'll disagree that you were insulting him) a highly esteemed professor who might be in charge of your entry to music school.... but it's his fault for posting an answer to a question about high school dating when he's been married and out of the game for decades and decades.
 

tom121

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typing on this little space and actually doing it in the real world is another story

your right, too many player wannabes or type up a fake story just to hide his denial ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bilogomja

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Dude that is the funniest thing Ive read all day, the kid who posted the question has to be in like 5th grade.
 

Porky

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I can't believe one of them actually ragged on your English. they're cool.
 

dereklearnslow

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Jesus listen to you people.

"Look at them there AFC's, ahyuck! They don'y know nutin' about them there wimens!"

This is not the way of a true DJ.

Yet what do I know, since I've been acting more AFC-ish lately myself. Maybe I'm just speaking out of hurt.
 

smoke city

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I agree with you derek.
There are too many chumps on this site who like to bag on people based on the number of posts underneath the screen name. It's typical with forums like this...some guys think they've "seen the light" so they validate themselves not by going out and practicing (note: some of these guys still arent getting any real girls), but by trying to demean the "newbies".
The people who really "get it" and have really had success feel like they've really discovered a gold mine and are willing to share the wealth. [There are 5 or 10 solid guys on here who are like this.] When you really know what's going on, your game will flow like wine, and you'll give nothing but real advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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