I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
....the fact that you are insulting the guys looks and how it relates to girls speaks volumes about you and your game. also, saying something works on some girls but not on others is ridiculous. girls are girls. quit ranking them in a way that makes them sound like they are different stages of a video game with increasing difficulty.Burroughs said:looks like an ugly, old looking small guy with high self confidence and aggressive verbiage....
would work well on hb 5.5 and below low self esteem chicks...there are lots of those.
no chance with hotter chicks...they would laugh at him and walk away....notice the muscle head dudes walking behind him...they have the hot girls
this guy is just marketing himself to non-verbal loser dudes with graphic stories......don't believe the hype if you want attractive girls you need to be attractive...an ugly dwarf spewing verbiage and 'gagnam style' will not cut it :crackup:
the dude julien has some intersting methods
Most of his success is from women that are sub-par.oxford comma said:
LMAO. Those PUA dudes are complete weirdos. They put getting laid as their end all be all in life thus pedestalizing the sh1t out of chicks.oxford comma said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
well please, clue me in then.Burroughs said:
cool. and you know that, how?BeginningDJ said:
Have we hurt your feelings? By the way, Santa Clause isn't real.oxford comma said:
BeginningDJ said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
will someone please explain to me the difference between a pua and what this site teaches guys to be? im honestly baffled.Naughty Ninja said:
dont bother , people on this site view everything other than this site as pua , even tho rsd has forums identical to this one with people giving the same advice ..oxford comma said:
I have no problem with rsd - the field report section is decent, and the little videos are pretty goodcablecow15 said:
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Ninja wasn't really talking down to you. Like ninja said, the difference between a PUA and a guy that actually gets it is that a PUA makes getting laid their number 1 priority in life. If that doesn't sound pathetic to you, then I can't help you.oxford comma said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.