Check Me Out Approaching Girls During The Day (Infield Footage Videos)

[Dr Destruction]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PN5V4wGnVBM

I'm sure a lot of guys like approaching girls at nightclubs and bars, but personally I like day game a lot more. Hope you guys enjoy, and feel free to contribute!

 

[gravityeyelids]

all of these girls hate you immediately

 

[Jariel]

"Yo mayn!" why do so many PUAs speak in this try hard wannbe black gangsta kinda way?

I give you props for doing the approaches. You've got balls and confidence and that's one hell of a great trait to have. But maybe if you toned it down and acted a bit more cool and easygoing they would respond better to you.

 

[Mr Wright]

...well at least you were having a good time

 

[LP700-4]

At 4:46 your statement to the Asian/white girl.

"You're probably like why is this guy holding this camera but it's for my grandma. I've also never had a girlfriend before so gotta work my way up to not being shy."

Great conversation piece. Just what every girl is dying to hear.

 

[VikingKing]

You did this as a joke right?

 

[Dgwizdal]

Smooth man...

Not tryin to hate but Stop with the Malibu's most wanted sh*t. Immediately shows you have little to no value. Good confidence but I don't see any game or concepts applied WHATSOEVER bruh. Any of these arbitrary convo's about cookies, England, and shopping malls and how cute they are are landing you in the less than friendzone and do nothing for attraction. These chicks hate you lmao.

Where'd you learn your concepts?

 

[Dgwizdal]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tfKxCFWrdbU&list=PLAzH0i-X6Z5NAbu0dgC3rHg9s9PtN9tit

I actually watched a couple of your videos and your image/style would work for you if you stop talking to these chicks like a thirsty AFC wangsta, read the bible, and apply some actual game technique to your conversations.

You're a young kid - You'll figure it out eventually. Play on playa

 

[The_flying_dutchman]

My recomendation would be to go on amazon and buy one of those hidden camera blue tooth earpieces for like $30 and record women without them feeling weirded out.

 

[Solomon]

I remember OP

He use to post vids on RSD as Smash99 I belive and his Videos where EPic. I seriosuly think dude trolls or has some sort of mental disorder

His other videos where classics though espeically the one of him approaching a mixed set in the middle of the day and him talking ghetto

 

[:-)]

Pretty much.

OP you have 0 charm.

I disagree. He has charm. But approaching girls with a camera in full view puts them on the defensive. Talks too much though.

 

[( . )( . )]

"Yo mayn!" why do so many PUAs speak in this try hard wannbe black gangsta kinda way?

Cradle to grave indoctrination and glorification of another culture he's encouraged to mimic. Don't be too hard on him.

 

[Atom Smasher]

"This looks like a good raping spot..."

 

[Demonpenz]

I like the video for what it is. A start, and a chance to get thicker skin, and you put a tons of hours of work in you will be awesome. You probably will go gansta on the girls you need to be gansta with and all shyguy with the girls who want shyguys if you put enough time into it.

 

[TheCWord]

Guys, take it easy on him. He's a doctor.

 

[GS750]

entertaining for sure.

 

[Masculinity]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PN5V4wGnVBM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tfKxCFWrdbU&list=PLAzH0i-X6Z5NAbu0dgC3rHg9s9PtN9tit

Do not take the following personally or as a form of bashing. I applaud you for putting yourself out there and cold approaching. This is something that half of self-acclaimed PUAs out there would not do. However, these videos--especially the one above--made me cringe. There are a couple of patterns I noticed in your approaches listed below.

First, there appears to be no purpose in your approaches. You are simply talking to women without any direction. This, in turn, seems to make your targets cringe with feelings of awkwardness. Such feelings are magnified by the blatant use of a video camera, which makes women behave completely different. Not only do they not know what you will do with the footage, but people usually do not like being recorded by strangers. The only rationale that could be operating here is that you could actually be working on your approach anxiety. In that case, these videos would symbolize your "training wheels," which is perfectly fine. None of us started as smooth DJs.

Second, although you did ask some open-ended questions, most of your questions are close-ended, which induce "yes" or "no" responses. And when you are not asking close-ended questions, and your target actually respond--which is good--you cut them right off. Your conversation style communicates nervousness and a significant need to receive approval. You just fire topic after topic without any continuity or reasoning. This approaching style not only confuses your targets but also reinforces their bitch shields. Ironically, you are sabotaging your own approach.

Third, your ebonic language (i.e., "yo my homeboys are crazy dawgs, ya feel me?") is simply not working. It immediately creates a psychological barrier between you and the target based on the kind of women that you are approaching. That is, you are approaching women who may not find this form of language appealing (e.g., White girls at a seemingly middle-class mall). Perhaps, your approach would work in another scenario or during night game, but does not seem to be working here.

Fourth, you are pedestalizing your targets immediately at the beginning of your approach. I did not see any teasing, qualifiers, kino, or playful conversation taking place. For example, in the video above, you say "oh, man you're like a Miami supermodel. What were you doing there besides stripping and getting paid for it?" This sounds like a failed push-pull attempt. You turbo-charged her value and then collapse it by calling her a stripper, which has value in itself since strippers are women hired strictly based on their looks. I had to close my eyes and ask baby Jesus to strike me with lightning if I ever say this to a woman.

Fifth, you are talking about yourself excessively. A man who is a mystery is a man with the upper hand (assuming you spark attraction with your charm). Talking about yourself should brief when you first approach, telling your target that you noticed her, and then during phone closure. This point works in sync with my first point above: if you in with a purpose of what you want (e.g., an instant date, a shopping helper, a phone number) are more likely to get it.

Now that I have said what you're doing wrong, here is what you can do to correct your mistakes:

-Go in with a purpose (do not overthink, just know what you want).
-Disguise the camera somehow to reduce reactivity in your targets (this is actually a research finding in psychology. People behave completely different when they know they are being watched. With women's herd-like social mentality, this effect is multiplied threefold).
-Do not mention the camera when you get the new one.
-Ask open-ended questions that other men would not ask. Asking questions about work, school, where your target is from, and the weather right off the bat put the woman in "I have heard this before mode," which increases your chance of rejection.
-Listen to what they respond without cutting them off, use the material she is giving you voluntarily, and steer the conversation in that direction. For example, if she was talking about a wedding, ask about details in the wedding or accuse her of being a party girl. You could do push-pull from here and say "hmmm...it's the innocent looking girls that tend to be the biggest partiers. I don't know if this is going to work out between you and I, [name]."
-Cut the ebonics/ganster talk unless you think your targets will find it appealing
-Do not give so many compliments right off the bat; maker her work for your approval and attention.
-Look away from time to time instead of making her the center of your universe.
-Make the conversation about them. Women love to talk about themselves. Mention how she coordinated her earrings to match her shoes or something. Little things like that will make you stand out immediately, as most men do not notice them.
-Last, get the number and get out of there without lingering around.


Follow these steps and your game will improve significantly. You are not a bad looking dude and you have confidence to approach women. It is just a matter of making some changes here and there.

Keep being money,

-R

----------------------EDIT-----------------------

I liked your interaction with the Indian-looking girl much more. Some of the things I highlighted above are still operating, but overall it went much better than with the Latinas. The Indian girl was smiling a lot, asking questions, trying to talk about you, etc. She even told you that other guys are creepy, subliminally saying that she approves of you. These little signs are what gets you in with women. Read them and use them to your advantage and you will succeed. If you learn anything from this post, make sure you approach in the style that you approached the Indian girl more often.

 

[LandingWood]

Are you from London? Do you look like you're from London? Tf?

 

[Solomon]

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhl93nH885dysf9JbC

^^^smash just made worldstarhiphop

OH MY GOODNESSS

THIS GUY IS GONNA BLOW UP NOW

CRAZY

 

[:-)]

If he had charm, the women would of atleast smiled at him at first... Honestly I skipped thru the video because I couldn't bare listening to his wanksta talk and screeching laughter longer than 20 seconds...

I'm assuming this guy is white, some white guys can pull off sounding hood quite naturally but this guy isn't one of them. Sounds like an complete fraud doing a npoor impersonation of his favorite rappers.

Dude needs to chill out and be himself.

EDIT

I see your Asian.

i said he had charm.

I didn't say he had charm that was appealing to women.

his incessant chitter-chatter and use of video camera puts paid to any potential rapport with his targets.

also he does sound mildly autistic.