"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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cheating on your girlfriend

powpow

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how do you guys feel about it?

I have the opportunity to get into a monogamous relationship with someone who would be pretty much perfect for me now while I'm so busy with school

just my type, short, super cute, big ass and boobs, doesn't speak english, supportive, intelligent, entertaining, and pretty much does whatever I want.

the problem is like... I love to have little flings and **** prostitutes.

and Im about to go to japan for winter break and was invited to a ski trip with a group of hot thai coeds in which basically gonna be skiing and ****ing all day for like a week.

and I always like to hook up with the girls I have back in japan and OMGAH the prostitutes are awesome, so there is gonna be like 4 or 5 prostitutes thrown in there too. so Im expecting to be in like 10 pvssies minimum for winter break, with a good expectation being about 15.

so how do you guys feel about getting into a relationship? I could probably stay mostly loyal while back in hawaii, but I'm not too sure about it.

if it doesn't come out, and I dont give her like std's or anything, how bad do you guys think cheating is?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jonhaul

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Just dump her spare her the emotional trauma of being cheated on. Have you ever been cheated on? I have and its not fun just end it with the girl if you are not into her man. I used to feel guilty for being attracted to other women while I was with my girl friend and thought about dumping her many times. Yet... I kept her until she decided sex was scary...
 

powpow

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it's kind of a "strike the iron while it's hot" kind of thing

and yeah I've been cheated on. long distance does that to people. I didn't really care that much, because I had plates.

the only thing is, the girl seems pure, like maybe she doesnt have any other plates, and she does the love game properly.

I know eventually I will have to come back to the real world and find a decent girl. I wouldn't girlfirend any of the girls I have flings with.

I think the most important thing is that I dont hurt her feelings or give her an STD. will be careful with them thai girls whoooooooaaaaa do they **** a lot
 
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