"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cheating on your girlfriend

powpow

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how do you guys feel about it?

I have the opportunity to get into a monogamous relationship with someone who would be pretty much perfect for me now while I'm so busy with school

just my type, short, super cute, big ass and boobs, doesn't speak english, supportive, intelligent, entertaining, and pretty much does whatever I want.

the problem is like... I love to have little flings and **** prostitutes.

and Im about to go to japan for winter break and was invited to a ski trip with a group of hot thai coeds in which basically gonna be skiing and ****ing all day for like a week.

and I always like to hook up with the girls I have back in japan and OMGAH the prostitutes are awesome, so there is gonna be like 4 or 5 prostitutes thrown in there too. so Im expecting to be in like 10 pvssies minimum for winter break, with a good expectation being about 15.

so how do you guys feel about getting into a relationship? I could probably stay mostly loyal while back in hawaii, but I'm not too sure about it.

if it doesn't come out, and I dont give her like std's or anything, how bad do you guys think cheating is?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jonhaul

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Just dump her spare her the emotional trauma of being cheated on. Have you ever been cheated on? I have and its not fun just end it with the girl if you are not into her man. I used to feel guilty for being attracted to other women while I was with my girl friend and thought about dumping her many times. Yet... I kept her until she decided sex was scary...
 

powpow

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it's kind of a "strike the iron while it's hot" kind of thing

and yeah I've been cheated on. long distance does that to people. I didn't really care that much, because I had plates.

the only thing is, the girl seems pure, like maybe she doesnt have any other plates, and she does the love game properly.

I know eventually I will have to come back to the real world and find a decent girl. I wouldn't girlfirend any of the girls I have flings with.

I think the most important thing is that I dont hurt her feelings or give her an STD. will be careful with them thai girls whoooooooaaaaa do they **** a lot
 
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