"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cheating in a LTR

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in a LTR with a flexible giver. cool chick to be with. however, i cant seem to stop myself from ****ing these other chicks. i have NO feelings for these chicks and i know i love my girl. it's pure physical testosterone. any man with the same problem or what not, feel free to post your comments
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dude, I was in exactly the same situation with my last LTR. It is horrible to feel like that and feel that the woman you love doesn't satisfy you fully sometimes.

To be honest, I really couldnt find an explaination as to why i was doing it. Sometimes it was an ego thing, sometimes it was when I was p1ssed off with her, and sometimes it was maybe because I wanted to prove to my self that I can still do it.
 
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Fash said:
To be honest, I really couldnt find an explaination as to why i was doing it. Sometimes it was an ego thing, sometimes it was when I was p1ssed off with her, and sometimes it was maybe because I wanted to prove to my self that I can still do it.
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thats exactly why dude. i just hope i gotta cure for this **** 'cause i dont know if im gonna stop. she does EVERYTHING for me this one.
 
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I used t get the same problem...its not worth it. It wil be a case of forbidden fruit always tasteing sweetier. Dont cheat...its bad for your health
 
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Honestly dude, if you're cheating on her, you don't love her. I've been in love once, and i've also been in an LTR with a chick i did NOT love. The difference is HUGE. There is no way, just no way you can cheat on a chick you TRULY love. Believe it or not, i literally lost ALL sexual attraction for chicks other than her. It's an unbelievable feeling, but that's what happens. So my advice to you is: end the relationship, as you've damaged it and yourself to a point where it has no future. Even you stop cheating now, you'll feel guilty about it for the rest of your life, and the relationship will never be healthy. This is beyond repair. Tell your chick what a cheating, lying sack of sh1t you've been and let her dump you. Once that's done, get to work on yourself and become a better man, one who wouldn't cheat. Only then, find a new gf.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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