"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cheating in a LTR

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in a LTR with a flexible giver. cool chick to be with. however, i cant seem to stop myself from ****ing these other chicks. i have NO feelings for these chicks and i know i love my girl. it's pure physical testosterone. any man with the same problem or what not, feel free to post your comments
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dude, I was in exactly the same situation with my last LTR. It is horrible to feel like that and feel that the woman you love doesn't satisfy you fully sometimes.

To be honest, I really couldnt find an explaination as to why i was doing it. Sometimes it was an ego thing, sometimes it was when I was p1ssed off with her, and sometimes it was maybe because I wanted to prove to my self that I can still do it.
 
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Fash said:
To be honest, I really couldnt find an explaination as to why i was doing it. Sometimes it was an ego thing, sometimes it was when I was p1ssed off with her, and sometimes it was maybe because I wanted to prove to my self that I can still do it.
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thats exactly why dude. i just hope i gotta cure for this **** 'cause i dont know if im gonna stop. she does EVERYTHING for me this one.
 
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I used t get the same problem...its not worth it. It wil be a case of forbidden fruit always tasteing sweetier. Dont cheat...its bad for your health
 
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Honestly dude, if you're cheating on her, you don't love her. I've been in love once, and i've also been in an LTR with a chick i did NOT love. The difference is HUGE. There is no way, just no way you can cheat on a chick you TRULY love. Believe it or not, i literally lost ALL sexual attraction for chicks other than her. It's an unbelievable feeling, but that's what happens. So my advice to you is: end the relationship, as you've damaged it and yourself to a point where it has no future. Even you stop cheating now, you'll feel guilty about it for the rest of your life, and the relationship will never be healthy. This is beyond repair. Tell your chick what a cheating, lying sack of sh1t you've been and let her dump you. Once that's done, get to work on yourself and become a better man, one who wouldn't cheat. Only then, find a new gf.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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