Rejected123
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I like cake
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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If she doesnt know,it never happened
Rejected123
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She hasnt dumped me yet
we havent talked
we havent talked
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Rejected123
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The thing is though, Shed dump you cuz shed be rlly pissed off becuz she likes u. SO clearly thats somehting you could use if you wanted to get her back. I think if i do it right my gf not only wont dump me but will do more with me
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I told her because i want a relationship. If i had not told her it would have been a lie. If i want a fake one... well thats why they have hookers
Hey man... I hope things turn out well for you! I really do!
Luckily I've recovered from the pain.. I was in a 1 year LTR... and I'm kinda happy to be finally out of it! I'm sure she's hurting more than me, and it's not something I'm proud of, but still..
Luckily I've recovered from the pain.. I was in a 1 year LTR... and I'm kinda happy to be finally out of it! I'm sure she's hurting more than me, and it's not something I'm proud of, but still..
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Thanx
and dont worry. Shes prob as we speak eating ice cream and trying to get over u
and dont worry. Shes prob as we speak eating ice cream and trying to get over u
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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This isn't fairyland. Neither of you are Jesus - you're going to lie about a whole lot of crap to each other. Now because of your master stroke, you're not going to have a relationship at all.Rejected123 said:I told her because i want a relationship. If i had not told her it would have been a lie. If i want a fake one... well thats why they have hookers
Rejected123
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I seriously doubt that
i think shell come back to me
why would she want to date anyone else
i think shell come back to me
why would she want to date anyone else