"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My girlfriend went away for 5 weeks after wed only been going out for a month. We didnt even go farther then just like kissing but i cheated on her a week before she gets back. I feel like a ****head. I really like her. What should i do to keep her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i say kontroller is rite, just 4get abt it
...afterall u liked it wen it was happening, didn't u??
(atleast be honest to urself)
just move on, dont worry abt it
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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No, you keep your mouth shut. Do you think a girl would come out and tell you she cheated on you? It's highly doughtful, unless she wan'ts you to dump her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ya... the problem with keeping quiet is that i felt really bad and told her. ^his is wat happend. This girl friend of mine came over and as a joke started to give me a handjob outside my clothes... and i felt her up and stuff but after like 5 minutes i told her that it was wrong and i couldnt do it and we had to stop. My girlfriend knows this.
 

jtrain 289

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but you did it you cant reverse the past move on. If you want to keep your girl dont tell her
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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what happened after you told her?
 

Rejected123

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well
i told her on facebook
and she didnt reply
she signed on msn later
and im like u didnt reply...
and we havent talked in 3 days
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whoah, bad move my friend!
You should have told her in person. They tell you that advice for a reason, even though it may be harder, there are MANY benefits.
For starters, since you told her on facebook or on MSN, SHE has an option to reply to you or not. If you call her, SHE has the option to say "Oh listen, I have to go." And all three of those instances, you don't know what is going on.
If you saw her in person and explained to her the situation, you could actually see how she reacts and be able to talk to her about it.

So what do you do now? Let it go. If it is anything I have learned about women, it is that the harder you try to get them back, the more it does the total opposite.
 

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you told her on facebook... if you have been going out with this girl for a month you should have called her and told her via phone or had her meet you somewhere
 

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Rejected123 said:
well
i told her on facebook
and she didnt reply
she signed on msn later
and im like u didnt reply...
and we havent talked in 3 days
What did everyone just get finished telling you?
I.A.F.Y.B. said:
No, you keep your mouth shut. Do you think a girl would come out and tell you she cheated on you? It's highly doughtful, unless she wants you to dump her.
Stop thinking like this.
girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
She deserves to know.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Stuff like that, if said must be said in person.

And if all you did with your "gf" after a month is kiss her what do you think constitutes cheating?
 

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Sounds like you need to next the GF and make the other one a FB.
 

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She gave me a hand job. She's still away so i couldnt have met her. Ive decided that since i stopped in the middle, she should be complimented. If she wants to be stupid about it and ignore me and not reply thats her problem. I can get better. Thanx guys for the advice
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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