"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cheated on, whilst cheating with...how does THAT WORK? that work?

Skhumbuzo

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Howzit gentleman, nice to meet yall. The question here guys is whether or not I should give this a chance and what could have made the situation get to this point?
I was dating a slightly older women from the workplace whilst she was simultaneously seeing this other guy. She kept on going about how this guy was giving her a hard time, etc, but he loved her...I was supposedly the guy taking her away from all her problems. I also have a steady gf so I thought it was all a big bonus at the time. One day I ended the relationship with girl A because I wasn't getting any sex for a LONG time, and everytime I tried to get some she would have this and that excuse, then 1 day we had a big fight in front of our colleuges and I ended it that night.
Next day she tells me she had ANOTHER dude on the side. Told me about hw seein as hw she has kids (she's gt 2) and is older it wouldn't work out anyway. like wtf, ryt?
We talked after that about trying to make it work but when i tried 2 call her she was so antagonistic over the phone so i stopped calling her altogether. I still want to get back with her even though all this has transpired, and she calls everyday as if she forgot about something from the office or whatever and i try not to be nasty over the phone. Otherwise I try to avoid all contact with her, even though its nt always possible during wrk hrs.
Im embarressed to admit it but I fell for girl A and can't get over it, wt shd I do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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she is the DJ not you, she is playing you marvellously, you fell for her you say? a woman who values you so little? good luck with that.

dont answer her calls and cut as much contact as you can, never initiate it, I know you work with her so some contact is neccesary, other than that, move on and get with other women
 
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