"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cheated and lies on gf..will she ever trust me?

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ok..i cheated (just a lil kiss not even makin out) and lied about it to my gf...she was scared i would do that and i told her i wouildnt but i did anyway...we had a logn talk and i told her this time it really WONT happen again..and i kno i wont do it again..

but shes still worried i will and always brings it up to me and is having a hard time believing me now...

do u think she'll ever trust me again?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She trusts you less, but you have raised the stakes now.

She will start questioning her emotional investment in you.

She may start the "Acting Phase" on your ass...


Watch out.

Keep your eyes open.


Anyway, whatever negatives you feel or will experience, realize this, you earned it.

You made your choice.

She will eventually make hers.
Don't blame her if it doesn't suit you.
 
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The question is, will you ever trust her again? I can't trust most women as far as I can throw them.
 
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whats the 'Acting Phase".??..she repeatedly tells me she wants to trust me again but she doesnt wanna get hurt again
 
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ill, the "Acting Phase" is when a woman goes Method Acting on your ass and on the outside she's nicee and lovey dovey to you, but on the inside she's cutting her losses. She is cutting off her emotional ties to you.

In other words, fake Out Ward appearance, but inside, she's disconnecting from you.

Believe me, she won't be hurt by you again.


She will fool you that you did. But she really didn't care anymore.
She may just cheat on you, and never tell you about it.

Then she will act like "Oh, it's OK..." when/if you mess up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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does she call you a "b@stard" or "beast" from time to time?...if not, I wouldn't worry about it.
 
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I did the same thing after the first week of officially dating my girlfriend. Now we're pretty good, it was about a month and a half ago. But from time to time when she gets really really drunk, she always mentions it saying I still like that girl I kissed blah blah. Girls typically get hurt, not because of what you physically did, but emotionally/mentally. Girls connect with you emotionally/mentally, and if you're spending time with other girls, or are better friends with other girls, then she may get hurt by it. Cut off all contact with that girl you kissed and make an effort to show that you still care about this girl and you want things to work. Hopefully things will work out for you.
 
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Poonani Maker said:
I can't trust most women as far as I can throw them.
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Ain't that the truth roof.


I never understand guys who go out with other girls and then "volunteer" the information to the gf, without the gf even asking.

Why would you do that? If the gf is old or ugly and you want out then go ahead but otherwise, what's the point?

How does it help her and your relationship?
 
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Women forgive but they never forget. Of course she will not trust you but why would you care? She most likely didnt trust you before so don't make such a big deal out of it.

This can be a good thing. She now realizes she can be replaced quickly. She mishaves and you may just run off with someone else. Play on her insecurities, don't let her emotional outburst affect you. Why you think this is bad thing is beyond me.
 
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She will NEVER trust you again and it'll always come up in conversations and be used as leverage against you when she wants something.
Its over forever with her, sure she may stick around for a while due to low self esteem but its downhill all the way.

I suggest moving on and learning about self-control and respect.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Monkey said:
She will NEVER trust you again and it'll always come up in conversations and be used as leverage against you when she wants something.
Its over forever with her, sure she may stick around for a while due to low self esteem but its downhill all the way.

I suggest moving on and learning about self-control and respect.
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disagree...time heals all. HoWEVER, in the meantime, you are now her puppet. everything you do will be used against you. fasten your seatbelt, your in for a bumpy ride
 
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yeah.. those advice really works. it also happen to. believed me man, if the girl has a high interest on you , not it will going to sink. all you have to do is learn to let go and open the other opportunity.. :)
 
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