"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cheap tricks women play

thedarkpassenger

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What is the cheapest damn trick women play to get you to do what they want?

For me it's guilt. I'm naturally caring, and women, my ex especially, really knows how to turn the guilt trip on by texting me little one liners that really makes me upset.

How about you guys? Whats the dirtiest trick women pull out of their bag of tricks ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When they turn on the crying.
 

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women can only let their bull sh!t bother you if your mind frame is mellow and soft. focus on improving yourself good sir
 

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My ex used to use personal crises (like people dying, or remembering her dead husband) as excuses to either do bad things, or casually bring up bad things she's done in the past.

One night, she came over, and was freaking out, cuz her father was on his death bed. That night she was out with another man, and he was freaking out on he cuz of me, and they ended up at my neighbors "fvcking around on the couch, and I should expect that because of our 'open relationship.'" Everybody's story changed really quick, when I mentioned that we dont have an open relationship, and I couldnt confront the issue because her father was dying, and that would be cold hearted. by the time she was ready to talk about it, ( a week or two later) she had gotten her stories straight.

Hows that for a dirty trick?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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horaholic said:
My ex used to use personal crises (like people dying, or remembering her dead husband) as excuses to either do bad things, or casually bring up bad things she's done in the past.

One night, she came over, and was freaking out, cuz her father was on his death bed. That night she was out with another man, and he was freaking out on he cuz of me, and they ended up at my neighbors "fvcking around on the couch, and I should expect that because of our 'open relationship.'" Everybody's story changed really quick, when I mentioned that we dont have an open relationship, and I couldnt confront the issue because her father was dying, and that would be cold hearted. by the time she was ready to talk about it, ( a week or two later) she had gotten her stories straight.

Hows that for a dirty trick?
should've left that ***** ruined by telling her to fvck off. idk, i am cold hearted, thats what i would've done
 

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TC, we're similar. My ex used to do the same, text me things like "You never text me as much anymore." or "You always talk less to me, I don't know where I messed up.." following by small fvckin sad smilies.

ROFLMAO.
 
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