"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cheap tricks women play

thedarkpassenger

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What is the cheapest damn trick women play to get you to do what they want?

For me it's guilt. I'm naturally caring, and women, my ex especially, really knows how to turn the guilt trip on by texting me little one liners that really makes me upset.

How about you guys? Whats the dirtiest trick women pull out of their bag of tricks ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When they turn on the crying.
 

moneyisking

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women can only let their bull sh!t bother you if your mind frame is mellow and soft. focus on improving yourself good sir
 

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My ex used to use personal crises (like people dying, or remembering her dead husband) as excuses to either do bad things, or casually bring up bad things she's done in the past.

One night, she came over, and was freaking out, cuz her father was on his death bed. That night she was out with another man, and he was freaking out on he cuz of me, and they ended up at my neighbors "fvcking around on the couch, and I should expect that because of our 'open relationship.'" Everybody's story changed really quick, when I mentioned that we dont have an open relationship, and I couldnt confront the issue because her father was dying, and that would be cold hearted. by the time she was ready to talk about it, ( a week or two later) she had gotten her stories straight.

Hows that for a dirty trick?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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horaholic said:
My ex used to use personal crises (like people dying, or remembering her dead husband) as excuses to either do bad things, or casually bring up bad things she's done in the past.

One night, she came over, and was freaking out, cuz her father was on his death bed. That night she was out with another man, and he was freaking out on he cuz of me, and they ended up at my neighbors "fvcking around on the couch, and I should expect that because of our 'open relationship.'" Everybody's story changed really quick, when I mentioned that we dont have an open relationship, and I couldnt confront the issue because her father was dying, and that would be cold hearted. by the time she was ready to talk about it, ( a week or two later) she had gotten her stories straight.

Hows that for a dirty trick?
should've left that ***** ruined by telling her to fvck off. idk, i am cold hearted, thats what i would've done
 

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TC, we're similar. My ex used to do the same, text me things like "You never text me as much anymore." or "You always talk less to me, I don't know where I messed up.." following by small fvckin sad smilies.

ROFLMAO.
 
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