Create Reality
Master Don Juan
For you guys who know the area, what's a cheap place to stay for a few nights? I don't care if they have a casino.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The onlything you got right was the tourism part. But 18 million women visit vegas every year...not ALL of them ar hookers. And Gambling and gaming is no longer the number one revenue provider for the economy so "getting rich" by default is not the number one reason for people coming here.bigappledj said:Every woman is a hooker who visits Vegas. The whole economy is based on tourism. All of the tourism is based on getting rich. If you don't want hookers go to Yellowstone. People go there to see the bears.
You write like Hemmingwaybigappledj said:Every woman is a hooker who visits Vegas. The whole economy is based on tourism. All of the tourism is based on getting rich. If you don't want hookers go to Yellowstone. People go there to see the bears.