"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cheap date ideas? or just go to the bar?

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dipset_mafia

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Hey guys, 2nd date with a hb10... i think shes interested, and I've gotten to know her a bit, i just need an atmosphere where I can close the deal and possibly escalate tension to the point that I can take her home.... one of my rl buddies says take her to dinner, and then go to a pub/bar... I don't want to take her to dinner.... Honestly, if i had my own place, I'd invite her over to cook dinner with me... and then make ridiculous passes for hilarity... BUT i have 2 roomates - so my privacy is limited to my bedroom... I did coffee on the first date at a classy coffee desert bar at like 9:30... so I'm looking for a direction with this one.. the date is tomorrow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you asked her out on a date take her to dinner. If you are just "getting together" then drinks is ok.
 
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just invite her to ur house for a movie.
 
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dont get cheaper than that unless you dont want to rent a movie :p

Invite her to watch the news
 
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PS. A HB is NEVER a 10(never a ten).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Let's settle the HB9/HB10 debates.

HB5 = Average

HB6 = Attractive body, Face is average

HB7 = Attractive, good enough for photo shots, pornos.

HB8 = Very attractive, Universally perfect feminine attractiveness.

HB9 = Very attractive, College grad/can hold a full time job for more than a year, can cook and clean.

HB10 = Very attractive, College Grad/Can hold a full time job for more than a year, can cook and clean. Has powerful friends and family.


YOU GOT IT? STUPID DJs. That means MOST hollywood and your version of Hb9s-10s you pick up at "BARS CLUBS" are HB7-8s. You got that?
 
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