"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cheap date ideas? or just go to the bar?

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dipset_mafia

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Hey guys, 2nd date with a hb10... i think shes interested, and I've gotten to know her a bit, i just need an atmosphere where I can close the deal and possibly escalate tension to the point that I can take her home.... one of my rl buddies says take her to dinner, and then go to a pub/bar... I don't want to take her to dinner.... Honestly, if i had my own place, I'd invite her over to cook dinner with me... and then make ridiculous passes for hilarity... BUT i have 2 roomates - so my privacy is limited to my bedroom... I did coffee on the first date at a classy coffee desert bar at like 9:30... so I'm looking for a direction with this one.. the date is tomorrow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you asked her out on a date take her to dinner. If you are just "getting together" then drinks is ok.
 
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just invite her to ur house for a movie.
 
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dont get cheaper than that unless you dont want to rent a movie :p

Invite her to watch the news
 
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PS. A HB is NEVER a 10(never a ten).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let's settle the HB9/HB10 debates.

HB5 = Average

HB6 = Attractive body, Face is average

HB7 = Attractive, good enough for photo shots, pornos.

HB8 = Very attractive, Universally perfect feminine attractiveness.

HB9 = Very attractive, College grad/can hold a full time job for more than a year, can cook and clean.

HB10 = Very attractive, College Grad/Can hold a full time job for more than a year, can cook and clean. Has powerful friends and family.


YOU GOT IT? STUPID DJs. That means MOST hollywood and your version of Hb9s-10s you pick up at "BARS CLUBS" are HB7-8s. You got that?
 
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