"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cheap date ideas here please

MaudGrimes

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Hey DJers,

I need some ideas for some cheap dates - I was seeing a girl up until recently and though I told her she was going to change her ways of we were going out, to start with I was paying out on our dates.

Gimme your ideas for dating without having to fork out. I like women but not enough to blow all my cash on them.... I have a more inportant person to spend my dough on. Me
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who Dares Win

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A walk in the park and an ice cream there, its a double win because its not expensive and helps you to filter girls.

A girl that agree with coming for a walk at the park is interested in you instead of the environment, girls who want you to take them to the club or any other place where they can do the same without you are the opposite.
 

Bible_Belt

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Go back to her place and fvck. You should be getting there within a few dates, and then the money part will not be so frustrating.
 

Packers2010

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i mostly do " coffee dates " we meet at the coffee store talk for a bit then go record shopping.

i like it cos i have a bunch of records with girls attached to them.

also try playing pool. or better yet just cook her dinner at your place if your alone.
 

loveorlust

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Watch a movie at your place.

Walk on the beach.

Get some coffee.

Tell her to pay.

Tell her you're taking her to some expensive place and on the way there pretend like you're car breaks down and spend the entire night stranded with her some where.

I'm out of ideas.

Good luck and all the best to you with women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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coochieman

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loveorlust said:
Tell her you're taking her to some expensive place and on the way there pretend like you're car breaks down and spend the entire night stranded with her some where.
:crackup: You sure-crazy for this one, loveorlust. Please Do This. :rockon:
 
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