"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cheap date ideas here please

MaudGrimes

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Hey DJers,

I need some ideas for some cheap dates - I was seeing a girl up until recently and though I told her she was going to change her ways of we were going out, to start with I was paying out on our dates.

Gimme your ideas for dating without having to fork out. I like women but not enough to blow all my cash on them.... I have a more inportant person to spend my dough on. Me
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Dares Win

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A walk in the park and an ice cream there, its a double win because its not expensive and helps you to filter girls.

A girl that agree with coming for a walk at the park is interested in you instead of the environment, girls who want you to take them to the club or any other place where they can do the same without you are the opposite.
 

Bible_Belt

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Go back to her place and fvck. You should be getting there within a few dates, and then the money part will not be so frustrating.
 

Packers2010

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i mostly do " coffee dates " we meet at the coffee store talk for a bit then go record shopping.

i like it cos i have a bunch of records with girls attached to them.

also try playing pool. or better yet just cook her dinner at your place if your alone.
 

loveorlust

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Watch a movie at your place.

Walk on the beach.

Get some coffee.

Tell her to pay.

Tell her you're taking her to some expensive place and on the way there pretend like you're car breaks down and spend the entire night stranded with her some where.

I'm out of ideas.

Good luck and all the best to you with women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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coochieman

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loveorlust said:
Tell her you're taking her to some expensive place and on the way there pretend like you're car breaks down and spend the entire night stranded with her some where.
:crackup: You sure-crazy for this one, loveorlust. Please Do This. :rockon:
 
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