"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm looking at my diet and I just have a hard time getting much over 3000 calories. I am in school so I have no income right now. I need some foods like olive oil where its like 6-7 bucks for a bottle of it which will last me weeks and 1 tablespoon is 120 calories right there. I'm having 3 tbsp for 360 calories and it's easy to mix in to stuff. I need more stuff like that, preferably high in protein as opposed to fat, but even with fat I could work it into my diet. Any ideas on how to eat big without breaking the bank?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Take more olive oil. Also eat nuts and eggs
 

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EFFORT said:
Take more olive oil. Also eat nuts and eggs
Be careful, that's raising the fat content also. I suggest looking into some of the sports drinks for endurance athletes. High in calories/carbs but low in fat. Stick to the ones based on complex carbs to mitigate the crash that comes along with simple sugars.
 

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Can't go wrong with a couple of dozen raw eggs a day. (yes I'm serious)
 

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Warboss Alex said:
Can't go wrong with a couple of dozen raw eggs a day. (yes I'm serious)
The entire egg? Yolk and all???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Agent Zero said:
I have 3 eggs for breakfast and I really don't want anymore. Also I have 3 tbsp olive oil, 2 tbsp peanut butter, and 510 cals of peanuts.
refusing to eat more eggs is shooting yourself in the foot as far as anabolism is concerned.

have 6tbsp OO, twice as much pb.. I'd avoid peanuts and go for walnuts or almonds or both instead.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spesmilitis said:
What's the story here?
peanuts are a legume (neo carb) and have a poor amino acid profile, contain phytoestrogens (like soy).. walnuts and almonds both contain omega3's and plenty nutrients (including calcium which without dairy products you'd have to get from other sources).
 

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Agent Zero said:
Why so many eggs though? The ones I get are only 70 calories and it is mostly fat. I have to question eating so much of the same food whatever food that might be.
mostly fat? eggs have more protein than fat. please do some basic reading. EFFORT, Throttle as well as myself have long sang the praises of whole eggs for muscle gain. The fat is the anabolic part of the egg.. the whites do very little.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
of course!

what problem be there?
Wouldn't that be way too much cholesterol especially if you're not eating a diet which offsets it?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Wouldn't that be way too much cholesterol especially if you're not eating a diet which offsets it?
ahhhhh, my fat-phobic friend.. ingested cholesterol has nothing to do with your cholesterol levels. in fact people on high fat, high cholesterol diets usually have LOW cholesterol levels.

what kind of diet would offset cholesterol?
 

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Agent Zero said:
I have 3 eggs for breakfast and I really don't want anymore. Also I have 3 tbsp olive oil, 2 tbsp peanut butter, and 510 cals of peanuts.

You can add eggs to other items in your diet:

- When you're making mashed potatoes add some egg yolks while the potatoes are still hot - it adds color, flavor, and protein.

- Also add eggs to soup. I make chicken soup alot (throw some chicken breasts, celery, carrots, onions, salt, pepper, brown rice into a pot of water). When it's done:

Scramble some raw eggs in a bowl. Slowly pour the scrambled, raw eggs into the hot soup. Stir the eggs with a fork as you're pouring them into the soup to make whispy strands. The eggs will cook when it hits the hot soup. This is how they make asian "egg drop" soup. A great way to make a protein dense soup. You can cut up the chicken breast into tiny pieces and you'll have something you can drink out of a thermos or cup.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Warboss Alex said:
ahhhhh, my fat-phobic friend.. ingested cholesterol has nothing to do with your cholesterol levels. in fact people on high fat, high cholesterol diets usually have LOW cholesterol levels.

what kind of diet would offset cholesterol?
Well that's hard to believe with the amount of obese people there are in the States with ridiculously high LDL levels. Now don't get me wrong, I've seen people do well on low carb diets who ate higher levels of fat but it was controlled amounts of non-hydrogenated fats.

As for a diet that helps offset, whole grains have worked wonders for me. Things as simple as bran cereal daily has helped a bunch. Also many of the green vegetables (especially broccoli) has worked in keeping my energy up and my LDL very low.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Well that's hard to believe with the amount of obese people there are in the States with ridiculously high LDL levels. Now don't get me wrong, I've seen people do well on low carb diets who ate higher levels of fat but it was controlled amounts of non-hydrogenated fats.

As for a diet that helps offset, whole grains have worked wonders for me. Things as simple as bran cereal daily has helped a bunch. Also many of the green vegetables (especially broccoli) has worked in keeping my energy up and my LDL very low.
Who says we're not also taking in a huge amount of green vegetables on a higher fat diet? I've never told anyone to not eat veggies. Remember also that you're an athlete. You could cut out the cereal, use more veggies and still have a great blood profile.

Do all these obese folk eat fatty foods or carby foods.. (they probably eat just too much of both, lol.) If you're obese you're going to have high LDL levels. But in no way is that because of the fact you eat egg yolks.

I'm not convinced that dietary cholesterol has any negative impact on body cholesterol (so long as you produce the stuff normally).
 

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Warboss Alex said:
Who says we're not also taking in a huge amount of green vegetables on a higher fat diet? I've never told anyone to not eat veggies. Remember also that you're an athlete. You could cut out the cereal, use more veggies and still have a great blood profile.
Well, the OP said that he was in school and had no income, I'd be surprised if he's eating all of the green foods that he needs to. For me, I hate raw vegetables with a passion so it's a bit difficult for me to find enough cooked (at least steamed) green foods that aren't intermixed with a ton of corn and carrots which makes my blood/sugar levels spike (hate the crash afterwards).
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Well that's hard to believe with the amount of obese people there are in the States with ridiculously high LDL levels. Now don't get me wrong, I've seen people do well on low carb diets who ate higher levels of fat but it was controlled amounts of non-hydrogenated fats.

As for a diet that helps offset, whole grains have worked wonders for me. Things as simple as bran cereal daily has helped a bunch. Also many of the green vegetables (especially broccoli) has worked in keeping my energy up and my LDL very low.
dietary fat is not linked to fat in your blood.

Cholesterol is good. It raises your testosterone levels. Cut enough fat out of your diet, and you'll one day wake up as a woman.

I eat 40 eggs a week & I feel great.

The timebomb is mixing fats with carbs. If you'd choose, fats are healthier. Obesity is caused by:
-lack of physical activity
-excess caloric intake
-genetic factors (although I think that if you want, you can do someting abou it)
-etc..

Eating fat makes you burn fat.

Read this:
Anabolic Diet: a high Fat Diet
Fat Myths
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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