Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Chatting up a Cashier

bunjy

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Ok guys here's something I need a little help with.

As part of my job I have to goto the local bank 4 times a week (sometimes once a day). As such I often have a friendly relationship with the bank staff since I see them day in day out. I go in, que up and then goto whatever cashier is free when its my turn. For about the past four months Ive established a good level of 'banter' with a hot chick who works there.

Now I realise part of her job is to be nice and friendly to customers but Im pretty sure she show me a decent level of interest, big smiles, eye contact, shows more than necessary interest in small talk etc. Always asking what I did at the weekend and stuff.

Usually in this sort of situation I would either a) ask her for a date there and then or b ) pass her my number and ask her to send me a txt or whatever. However this remains difficult in this particular circumstance (in my opinion) mainly because I think it would definetly embarrass the hell outta her. Its a very busy bank and her collegues are sitting mere inches away from her (then can hear every word said). In short, im not sure a blatant attempt at asking her out would do me any favours. I think maybe casually asking her if she is going out after work one Friday would be good. I could use this to build to a 'I drink here, you should come after work' line or something.

Im not exactly sure how to go about this situation. Any ideas?

I need a less direct approach.
 

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TonyBaloney

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Man,

How strange, I am in EXACTLY the same predicament.......

Just dont know how to move ahead with this...its like shes an option, but need to know if shes a potential or not!!!!

I've thought about slipping a piece of paper with my details on it asking her out for a drink.....

I think this one is really interested as i mentioned that I had my new (second hand) land rover parked around the corner, and when I last walked out the bank, when I went by she was oggling from her desk ;) .....unless she was just looking out anyway :)

Trouble is u cant even phone the branch anymore.... it all goes central...

Ah her smile, her eyes........ her cute little bod - i'm in love ;)
 

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When a woman is interested, they let you know. They make it easy. They might even say "So what's going on this weekend?"

A good line for a banker is: "So (her name), I've been saving up so that someday I can afford to ask you out."

Then say "I was hoping you'd say there is no minimum balance requirement."
 
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