"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chatting up a Cashier

bunjy

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Ok guys here's something I need a little help with.

As part of my job I have to goto the local bank 4 times a week (sometimes once a day). As such I often have a friendly relationship with the bank staff since I see them day in day out. I go in, que up and then goto whatever cashier is free when its my turn. For about the past four months Ive established a good level of 'banter' with a hot chick who works there.

Now I realise part of her job is to be nice and friendly to customers but Im pretty sure she show me a decent level of interest, big smiles, eye contact, shows more than necessary interest in small talk etc. Always asking what I did at the weekend and stuff.

Usually in this sort of situation I would either a) ask her for a date there and then or b ) pass her my number and ask her to send me a txt or whatever. However this remains difficult in this particular circumstance (in my opinion) mainly because I think it would definetly embarrass the hell outta her. Its a very busy bank and her collegues are sitting mere inches away from her (then can hear every word said). In short, im not sure a blatant attempt at asking her out would do me any favours. I think maybe casually asking her if she is going out after work one Friday would be good. I could use this to build to a 'I drink here, you should come after work' line or something.

Im not exactly sure how to go about this situation. Any ideas?

I need a less direct approach.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TonyBaloney

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Man,

How strange, I am in EXACTLY the same predicament.......

Just dont know how to move ahead with this...its like shes an option, but need to know if shes a potential or not!!!!

I've thought about slipping a piece of paper with my details on it asking her out for a drink.....

I think this one is really interested as i mentioned that I had my new (second hand) land rover parked around the corner, and when I last walked out the bank, when I went by she was oggling from her desk ;) .....unless she was just looking out anyway :)

Trouble is u cant even phone the branch anymore.... it all goes central...

Ah her smile, her eyes........ her cute little bod - i'm in love ;)
 

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When a woman is interested, they let you know. They make it easy. They might even say "So what's going on this weekend?"

A good line for a banker is: "So (her name), I've been saving up so that someday I can afford to ask you out."

Then say "I was hoping you'd say there is no minimum balance requirement."
 
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