penkitten
Master Don Juan
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
if anyone is bored, come chat with giovanni, redpill, desdinova and me
if anyone is bored, come chat with giovanni, redpill, desdinova and me
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
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no offense, i've reached my chating fill or exceeding -- my tank capacity today and yesterday w/ trying to do sarging hehe
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats ok maybe next time 
penkitten
Master Don Juan
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Whoever enters this make sure to leave both windows (the sign-on and the room) open with this or they'll both close. FYI.penkitten said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KneghtRyder
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as an aside though it would be cool to chat with you though penkitten sometime peace
~attrACTION~
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That was cool. I recommend the chat site.
~attrACTION~
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Bump. I'm hanging out in the chat room if anyone wants to chill.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why not schedule a date and a time so we can plan on stopping by?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats a wonderful suggestion.Francisco d'Anconia said:
when can you make it?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Early evening (about 7pm CST) either Sunday or Tuesday.penkitten said:
Bad_Lil'Pixie
Senior Don Juan
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Should I bring something? Chips, beer, cigars, raisin free oatmeal cookies?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I actually like the raisins...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we will be on vacation next week, so i wont be able to attend. you can still access chat without me
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.